Relationship Chat Thread Part 6 (looking, crying, respect, perfect)

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by ChessieMom

We went for a walk today in the snow...did about a mile. Brrrrr cold!!!

Did ya make a snowman?

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Did ya make a snowman?

I wanted to...but the snow was so dry I could hardly make a snowball! My son did, over at his dad's. I guess if I had persevered in the cold, I could have come up with something. My BF was no help...he said go ahead and build one in the front yard so he could watch from the living room.

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by ChessieMom

I wanted to...but the snow was so dry I could hardly make a snowball! My son did, over at his dad's. I guess if I had persevered in the cold, I could have come up with something. My BF was no help...he said go ahead and build one in the front yard so he could watch from the living room.

He-he, guess the BF is not a big fan of snow.

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

He-he, guess the BF is not a big fan of snow.

No he sure isn't. I was supposed to go down to his house last night, but since I was afraid I'd get stuck and have to stay over tonight (the roads are horrible) I decided to stay home. But he drove up this morning...he has a big ol truck. We took a snowboard over to my ex's house so my son could use it over there...and even his truck was sliding around. He'd just as soon the snow melted tomorrow!

He stayed over tonight - roads too bad to drive on. He's sleeping in the guest room, I'm in my room, and son is up playing on the computer. I'm trying to resist sneaking into the guest room.

[yankeegirl313]

Originally Posted by ChessieMom

He stayed over tonight - roads too bad to drive on. He's sleeping in the guest room, I'm in my room, and son is up playing on the computer. I'm trying to resist sneaking into the guest room.

Thats when you say, "Bed time..lights out!"

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

Thats when you say, "Bed time..lights out!"

That's when you say come to fun town.

[yankeegirl313]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

That's when you say come to fun town.

No Chow! Not until the son is asleep! (smacks hand!)

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by ChessieMom

I was supposed to go down to his house last night, but since I was afraid I'd get stuck and have to stay over tonight

It doesn't sound like the most horrible Friday night idea to me... Or are ya still playing "innocent Mommy"? For Pete's sake, your son may be doing it himself!

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by yankeegirl313

No Chow! Not until the son is asleep! (smacks hand!)

Yeah for sure. I can see I'm gonna be waking up around 3 am to go check things out.

[ChessieMom]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

It doesn't sound like the most horrible Friday night idea to me... Or are ya still playing "innocent Mommy"? For Pete's sake, your son may be doing it himself!

The problem was that if I drove down last night, I'd not have made it back today. My son is with me tonight. He was staying at his dad's last night. I don't spend the night at my BF's house on the nights my son is here.

And whether or not he is "doing it", I would never "do it" with him here - at least not unless I knew he was dead asleep! I can't explain...it's a mom/son thing. It has nothing to do with "innocent mommy". It's really more about respecting each other - if that makes any sense.