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Old 12-29-2009, 10:16 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Friends w/ benefits.
Yeah, but he's not getting any benefits..... Ok, then it would be Friends Without Benefits...gotcha!

Thanks for clearing that up Jeep, it takes me a while sometimes. LOL....
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Old 12-29-2009, 10:18 AM
 
Location: Western Washington
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I would love getting that treatment!
Oh gawd! me too!! Okay....so for those wanting to get some for New Year's...is this any help?....hehe....are you willing to put out a little effort?....or does this sound like too much work?
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Old 12-29-2009, 10:29 AM
 
Location: MichOhioigan
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Convincing? Sounds a lot like begging. Sorry. It is just not worth the the hassle.
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Old 12-29-2009, 10:32 AM
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Location: Mile High City
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"Either you F my brains out or someone else will!!!!"


Is that too harsh???
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Old 12-29-2009, 10:37 AM
 
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This was inspired by the "denied sex for a year" thread. It got me to thinking instead of crying and blubbering, what would be your best reason to convince your SO to have sex with you.......
I thought that was a bizarre concept. Blubbering and crying about sex is not in my playbook. I have too much pride, I would leave her before it came to that.

As far as your question goes, I don't think logic will work. My goal would be to show affection and make her feel a particular way, consistently, and unexpectedly. Like a "warming effect."

If (over time) that doesn't work.. Plan B, Plan C, Plan D.. I don't know, talk about it, etc.. it is hard to approach this as a hypothetical. Different people have different buttons that can be pushed.
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Old 12-29-2009, 10:38 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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This was inspired by the "denied sex for a year" thread. It got me to thinking instead of crying and blubbering, what would be your best reason to convince your SO to have sex with you.......
I don't plan to ever "convince" somebody to have sex with me.
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Old 12-29-2009, 10:40 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Oh gawd! me too!! Okay....so for those wanting to get some for New Year's...is this any help?....hehe....are you willing to put out a little effort?....or does this sound like too much work?
Please...run a bath, put in some suds, pop dinner in the oven OR have a nice take out...to get my world rocked! I do it no problem and yes, it's totally worth it!! I pop a Vicodin to recover and I'm ready to do it all over again!
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Old 12-29-2009, 10:41 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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Convincing? Sounds a lot like begging. Sorry. It is just not worth the the hassle.
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I don't plan to ever "convince" somebody to have sex with me.

I said this was for fun.....taking it too serious.
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Old 12-29-2009, 10:42 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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I don't plan to ever "convince" somebody to have sex with me.
Ditto.
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Old 12-29-2009, 10:47 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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I said this was for fun.....taking it too serious.
What was the point of the thread then...? Playful ways of "convincing"...? Even so, I'm not into fun requiring coaxing, cajoling, etc. If it does, it's no longer fun for me.
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