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Old 01-19-2010, 01:05 PM
 
Location: London, U.K.
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I have a good frined of mine who lives in Connecticut, we lived on the same block until I moved to Florida and we have always kept in touch and both do to this day

But for the past 4 or 5 years he has been questioning his sexuality and it has really been eating away at him

He says he as always been interested in women but he has had gay rumors swirling around him virtually his entire life. He had these rumors in school and now deals with them at his job daily.

When we were 14 he confided in me that he enjoyed cross-dressing for the sexual arousal he got out of it, though he hasn't done it in about 4 years he admits he still has occasional thoughts about it

Around the time he stopped secretly cross-dressing he told me had been experiencing a strange new atraction to men, he wasnt sure if it was physical or not he just knew some sort of attraction was there. He still seems interested in dating and having sex with women though

And then about 3 years ago he got into transsexual pornography and has almost but abandoned looking at naked women to looking at male-to female transsexuals. He still had sexual interest in women though and was still having some sort of attraction to men

He met a transsexual at a club once and had intercourse with her and enjoyed it. He has had sex with women as well but not men

He has had several crushes on men but never acted on them and when he was propositioned by gay men for sex he always rejected it. Even though he has had sex with feminine transsexuals, sex with a masculine male doesnt do anything for him or so he told me.

Honestly he feels like he has to label himself either straight gay or bi. And its really getting to him now. What do you guys think, is my friend gay?
If your 'friend' REALLY wants a label how about 'tranny chaser'? If all he wants is sex with ts' then the girls will call him that. Seriously trans women hate guys that just use them for sex.

As your friend has had crushes on men though as well as women, despite not acting on it then he is bi. Personaly I say I am bi, but prefer not to use labels though I like vague terms like 'fluid.'
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Old 01-19-2010, 01:44 PM
 
Location: Old Orchard Beach
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I have a good frined of mine who lives in Connecticut, we lived on the same block until I moved to Florida and we have always kept in touch and both do to this day

But for the past 4 or 5 years he has been questioning his sexuality and it has really been eating away at him

He says he as always been interested in women but he has had gay rumors swirling around him virtually his entire life. He had these rumors in school and now deals with them at his job daily.

When we were 14 he confided in me that he enjoyed cross-dressing for the sexual arousal he got out of it, though he hasn't done it in about 4 years he admits he still has occasional thoughts about it

Around the time he stopped secretly cross-dressing he told me had been experiencing a strange new atraction to men, he wasnt sure if it was physical or not he just knew some sort of attraction was there. He still seems interested in dating and having sex with women though

And then about 3 years ago he got into transsexual pornography and has almost but abandoned looking at naked women to looking at male-to female transsexuals. He still had sexual interest in women though and was still having some sort of attraction to men

He met a transsexual at a club once and had intercourse with her and enjoyed it. He has had sex with women as well but not men

He has had several crushes on men but never acted on them and when he was propositioned by gay men for sex he always rejected it. Even though he has had sex with feminine transsexuals, sex with a masculine male doesnt do anything for him or so he told me.

Honestly he feels like he has to label himself either straight gay or bi. And its really getting to him now. What do you guys think, is my friend gay?
First off I'd like to point out that the perversion of man deciding what sex he or she is, is a delusion. sex is not determined man by no matter how much manipulation takes place, it is determined by nature. Second, there is no second guessing what you are, or what you like, if you stray or even think about it, your not straight, your confused. 2 people of the same sex are no more evolved than 2 animals of the same sex. real procreation takes place with straight people that aren't confused, and occasionally by accident with those who are, either way, once you stray from the chemistry that made you, you become a chemistry of your own delusion. Animals don't know the difference, humans do. Now if you go sticking body parts where they don't belong perhaps the goat with human face in zimbabwe is a reminder that god given body parts should be used as god intended. Arguments?
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Old 01-19-2010, 01:49 PM
 
Location: CITY OF ANGELS AND CONSTANT DANGER
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id love to see a picture of that goat!

go back to reading the natl enquirer or whatever looney tunes rag you read.


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First off I'd like to point out that the perversion of man deciding what sex he or she is, is a delusion. sex is not determined man by no matter how much manipulation takes place, it is determined by nature. Second, there is no second guessing what you are, or what you like, if you stray or even think about it, your not straight, your confused. 2 people of the same sex are no more evolved than 2 animals of the same sex. real procreation takes place with straight people that aren't confused, and occasionally by accident with those who are, either way, once you stray from the chemistry that made you, you become a chemistry of your own delusion. Animals don't know the difference, humans do. Now if you go sticking body parts where they don't belong perhaps the goat with human face in zimbabwe is a reminder that god given body parts should be used as god intended. Arguments?
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Old 01-19-2010, 02:06 PM
 
Location: Old Orchard Beach
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id love to see a picture of that goat!

go back to reading the natl enquirer or whatever looney tunes rag you read.
I read medical journals and technical biological data, the enquirer hasn't got the capacity for understanding the terminology for. I have access to the cdc and other related scientific fully accredited information. I am also a member of a worldwide science organization used mostly for meteorological and geographical data maps. the possibilities and choices in life are endless, but life itself is not, while I don't condone such activities for myself, i merely state the facts make my suggestions. Live and let die - respect but don't lie
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Old 01-19-2010, 02:09 PM
 
Location: CITY OF ANGELS AND CONSTANT DANGER
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so no pictures?


what exactly did "god" intend for our body part, oh scientific one?
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I read medical journals and technical biological data, the enquirer hasn't got the capacity for understanding the terminology for. I have access to the cdc and other related scientific fully accredited information. I am also a member of a worldwide science organization used mostly for meteorological and geographical data maps. the possibilities and choices in life are endless, but life itself is not, while I don't condone such activities for myself, i merely state the facts make my suggestions. Live and let die - respect but don't lie
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Old 01-19-2010, 11:58 PM
 
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id love to see a picture of that goat!

go back to reading the natl enquirer or whatever looney tunes rag you read.
I am not partaking in this conversation, but somebody asked for pictures so: http://www.showbizgalore.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/01/lamb-with-human-face1.jpg (broken link)

4 days ago, a sheep was stillborn with a human face, in Turkey. Made worldwide headlines.
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Old 01-20-2010, 01:46 AM
 
Location: SF Bay Area
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I am not partaking in this conversation, but somebody asked for pictures so:

4 days ago, a sheep was stillborn with a human face, in Turkey. Made worldwide headlines.
Bizarre. I guess those Turks really love their sheep. The sexual perversion nearly produced a new species.
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Old 01-20-2010, 08:25 AM
 
Location: The #1 sunshine state, Arizona.
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This phrase should help your friend rest easy, "Sometimes you feel like a nut, sometimes you don't."
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Old 01-20-2010, 02:24 PM
 
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Could this be you? Regardless, I would say he is not just straight but very straight. Transexuals, I am assuming are feminine but then again, what is a transsexual? Does he like the ones with the male equipment? If he does then why would he like someone with the equipment? If he likes the ones without the equipment, it would seem obvious to me that he is at least very straight. What sorts of things does he fantasize? If he fantasizes about sucking at those women's "bananas" then I would say he has "gay tendencies". Who are we to label anyway. No one really knows what makes us attracted to people or to the sexes. I personally have never spoken to any man who dates other men or any woman who dates other women of a man who was born a woman and viceversa, so take my response with a pinch of salt. A sexologist would probably be better suited to advise but again why wouldn't he just date women? Is his fetish so much so that he cannot help but do what he is doing?
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Old 01-20-2010, 02:39 PM
 
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Bizarre. I guess those Turks really love their sheep. The sexual perversion nearly produced a new species.
I'm sure it was just a deformed sheep who's head happened to resemble a human face. There is just no way.
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