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Old 01-07-2010, 03:59 PM
 
Location: Houston
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Openly gay son for me because I love the gays. I'm so against teen pregnancy and out of wedlock childbirths, I would give my daughter an ultimatium either you give the baby up for adoption or get an abortion. If she decides to keep the baby, I don't think I can support her decision and I don't think that it's my responsibilty to take care of their children. I know it sounds pretty harsh but I don't want my child to be a parent that early I would rather them be done with high school and college before they start thinking about getting pregnant.
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Old 01-07-2010, 04:09 PM
 
Location: At the Lake (in Texas)
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Or...you could have a lesbian daughter and a pregnant son? Then you could either still be a proud parent of a gay person or be on tv with your son... Couldn't help myself with this one...my bad...
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Old 01-07-2010, 04:10 PM
 
Location: DFW - Coppell / Las Colinas
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It would be difficult to tell my daughter she must abort my grandchild even though I am pro choice. I believe I would take in the grandchild and raise under my roof.

Our gay son came out to us at 16. That's a difficult thing for someone so young to do. If they can do this at that age it shows they have a great relationship with their parents. At that age many young people risk getting kicked out of the family and house.
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Old 01-07-2010, 04:14 PM
 
Location: somewhere close to Tampa, but closer to the beach
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:h amd::ham d:WHOAH!!!!!!!

Do we really want to go down the "Out of wed lock road?"...Hope you read my status first

:shoc ked: Tread lightly..and respectfully:s hocked:
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Old 01-07-2010, 04:17 PM
 
Location: Sugarland
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Originally Posted by RyokoMariaUrameshi View Post
Openly gay son for me because I love the gays. I'm so against teen pregnancy and out of wedlock childbirths, I would give my daughter an ultimatium either you give the baby up for adoption or get an abortion. If she decides to keep the baby, I don't think I can support her decision and I don't think that it's my responsibilty to take care of their children. I know it sounds pretty harsh but I don't want my child to be a parent that early I would rather them be done with high school and college before they start thinking about getting pregnant.
I would be a lot less understanding about a teen pregnancy because I know it's possible to abstain from having sex in your teens (I managed to do it), and also birth control is widely available, so there's just no excuse for such carelessness in my mind. I would try my best to be supportive in both situations though.
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Old 01-07-2010, 04:25 PM
 
Location: el paso texas
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gay son all the way
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Old 01-07-2010, 04:26 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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Is this something you get to choose in real life??

I'd probably deal with a pregnant teenage daughter in the future better, hands down.
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Old 01-07-2010, 04:32 PM
 
Location: Harrisonburg, VA
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A pregnant son of course.
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Old 01-07-2010, 04:35 PM
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Location: Southern California
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I'm thinking about "Will and Grace." Would my gay son be like Will or Jack?
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Old 01-07-2010, 04:38 PM
 
Location: Toledo
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I'd rather have a gay son.
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