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Old 01-09-2010, 12:40 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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What are you, an aspiring priest who wants to play "confessional"?
Rofl! I would LOVE to be a fly on the wall during Confession sometimes, especially after my priest told me, "don't worry, I've heard a lot worse".
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Old 01-09-2010, 12:40 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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This is where I decide against telling the joke I was just about to tell. Thus extending my membership on CD for at least one more day.
You bad boy
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Old 01-09-2010, 12:40 PM
 
Location: VA
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What are you, an aspiring priest who wants to play "confessional"?
No and I sure don't want to come off that way
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Old 01-09-2010, 12:42 PM
 
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No and I sure don't want to come off that way
Well, maybe it's just me, but you are "coming off" a bit like a voyuer

It's just an odd thing to ask people.
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Old 01-09-2010, 12:45 PM
 
Location: VA
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Well, maybe it's just me, but you are "coming off" a bit like a voyuer

It's just an odd thing to ask people.

Well then maybe I'm going about this wrong because its not what I wanted
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Old 01-09-2010, 12:48 PM
 
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Well then maybe I'm going about this wrong because its not what I wanted
Explain to us a little better what it is you do want to know
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Old 01-09-2010, 12:55 PM
 
Location: VA
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Forgiveness
it doesn't really relieve the persons actions but....
it does allow for a good person to make mistakes
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Old 01-09-2010, 01:16 PM
 
Location: MichOhioigan
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I believe people are neither "good" nor "bad".

How can one say any person is "good" or "bad"? There is no inherent good or evil in any of us. We are just animals. Humans may do "good" things or "bad" things as defined by society or exhibit "good" or "bad" behavior but in the individuals mind I am sure they think they are doing "good".

There is that expression that "if you think you are crazy you are not." Meaning a crazy person wouldn't realize or think that they are crazy. Likewise would a 'bad" person think they are "bad"? Probably not. Did Hitler think that he was bad? I doubt it. He probably saw himself as doing good for the German people?
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Old 01-09-2010, 02:18 PM
 
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Forgiveness
it doesn't really relieve the persons actions but....
it does allow for a good person to make mistakes
Forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves

As humans we make lots of mistakes and bad decisions, even Mother Theresa considered herself a sinner!

But I think the "good" sinners are the ones who recognize their bad choices, accept the responsibility for the damage or pain they have caused, and vow to never do the same thing again.

The "bad" among us tend to be more sociopathic and just don't care about the damage and distruction they cause.
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Old 01-09-2010, 02:29 PM
 
Location: The Jar
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Forgiveness is a gift we give ourselves

As humans we make lots of mistakes and bad decisions, even Mother Theresa considered herself a sinner!

But I think the "good" sinners are the ones who recognize their bad choices, accept the responsibility for the damage or pain they have caused, and vow to never do the same thing again.

The "bad" among us tend to be more sociopathic and just don't care about the damage and distruction they cause.


Exactly!
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