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Old 01-09-2010, 11:12 AM
 
Location: VA
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After reading through the numerous threads on here I have been both the victim and accuser at some point and so I wonder........
I know I'm a good person, isn't every person on here a good person.
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Old 01-09-2010, 11:17 AM
 
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After reading through the numerous threads on here I have been both the victim and accuser at some point and so I wonder........
I know I'm a good person, isn't every person on here a good person.
No, some are not. The ones that are though are great people. I know I am and don't have to prove anything. I know where I'm going for it also! Rugged
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Old 01-09-2010, 11:21 AM
 
Location: VA
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Ok but am I going to see some respond that say....no I am not a good person?
aren't there those that don't see what we do?
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Old 01-09-2010, 11:33 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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I suppose it's all a matter of perspective. I think what matters more than a person identifying themselves as a good or a bad person is whether or not they have it in them to see the good in another person. Why focus on the negative?

Or maybe I'm just misunderstanding your post entirely
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Old 01-09-2010, 11:37 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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After reading through the numerous threads on here I have been both the victim and accuser at some point and so I wonder........
I know I'm a good person, isn't every person on here a good person.
No. There is good and bad everywhere.

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Ok but am I going to see some respond that say....no I am not a good person?
aren't there those that don't see what we do?
I have seen people here and IRL admit to their faults, though they may not have the right approach to fixing it. Some, even with their desire to change, don't want to own all of it and they'll sugarcoat the problem. If it isn't THAT bad, there is less effort required to fix it and there is less guilt to have to deal with; this is the root of the problem to begin with.
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Old 01-09-2010, 11:38 AM
 
Location: VA
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I suppose it's all a matter of perspective. I think what matters more than a person identifying themselves as a good or a bad person is whether or not they have it in them to see the good in another person. Why focus on the negative?

Or maybe I'm just misunderstanding your post entirely
No I think we are sort of on the same page. Actually the point is I don't think anyone identifies them selves as a bad person which brings us back to what you said....perspective.
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Old 01-09-2010, 11:43 AM
 
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Ok but am I going to see some respond that say....no I am not a good person?

No, I am not a good person.
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Old 01-09-2010, 11:45 AM
 
Location: VA
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No, I am not a good person.
Ok Jays but now you have to tell us why
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Old 01-09-2010, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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No, I am not a good person.
That's right - you are a GREAT person

Me, I'm a work in progress
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Old 01-09-2010, 11:50 AM
 
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Ok Jays but now you have to tell us why
I don't have to tell you jack
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