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No. My dh seems to think that when he blows up, he has "just cause" to do so, and therefore isn't sorry for his behavior. But b/c he blows up about anything/everything, even the kids stay clear of him.
She usually apologizes 6 weeks after blowing up at me...that's typically how long it takes for a broken jaw to heal after I've socked her in the mouth..................only kidding.
In 10 years of marriage I have never gotten a real apology for any of the stuff he has done. It is more like an attempt to just pretend it didn't happen, or do something nice for me (which used to make me feel bad for being mad). He is very quick to jump my case and yell at me and then be all like "everything is just peachy, so what's your problem?" kind of thing.
Well almost 37 years of marriage, i know you won't believe it, but we don't have blow ups, just arguements, in which we could both see each other's points, we talk things out. In a case as this, one partner seems, to always be the right one, while no matter what the other thinks is wrong, that thinking is wrong believe me. That is what leaves to a blowup. Also one Partner or Spouse is a hothead, never ever wrong, can't stand people as that. Believe me things do get better with oh gosh hate to say this but AGE. When i was younger, and naive, yes naive, if i was really upset at my husband, i would probably snub him for a day, and that would be it for me. I don't like the silent treatment, as some of my friends do when they fight, there fights can go on for a whole week, what a waste of time to be mad.
Yes, I have. One time, and he felt really sorry for it!
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