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Just for the record, I wouldn't be bringing home another woman and my concerns regarding a partner coming out as bisexual in our relationship are purely for the emotional distress it would cause me because I can only be female, therefore I would not be able to fully satisfy his needs and I don't really want to be in a relationship like that. (with a heterosexual man either).
I understand that if a guy IS bisexual it can be difficult to mention such a thing but I would be pissed if he didn't tell me.
I have no problem being friends with bisexuals. A couple of my friends are and I love them to bits and have absolutely no concerns about them with regard AIDS or any other disease ABOVE AND BEYOND the normal concerns I have of any of my friends becoming infected but ultimately I don't have the kind of emotional make up that could cope with being involved with a bisexual. SO it's not really about them. It's about recognizing what I can and cannot cope with.
You can't really control your sexual orientation. I would assume he'd be no different than any hetero or gay man who knows right from wrong. If he said he wanted to actually pursue being with other people, it wouldn't matter if it was a man or woman. It would be over.
Ladies, How would you react if your Husband/BF told you he was Bisexual?
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Originally Posted by SATX_GUY
What if he wanted to continue to be with guys (as well as be with you).
-Steve
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Right, because straight people are so conspicuously monogamous. And HIV is clearly a gays-only disease. With a divorce rate eclipsing 50%, and hetero men being so notoriously short on libido in comparison to their gay counterparts, breeders are looking fabulous in comparison.
This is the kind of reasoning that doesn't pick off the weak ones fast enough.
So what if they're bi? It doesn't mean that they're sleeping around. It doesn't mean that they aren't monogamous, if you also can't handle not being the most important person in a relationship. If your ego is that brittle that you can't handle that, you just shouldn't be dating period. I'm always amazed and a little disturbed at how vanilla most of my fellow Americans are.
WTH??? The way I read the original post, the guy says that he is bisexual and wants to have sex with other guys as well as me. And that's cheating, plain and simple. How else should I take my boyfriend or husband telling me that he wants to "continue to be with guys (as well as be with me)"? Especially if that man is my husband. How else can he still continue to be with guys?
My issue is only the cheating aspect of the situation, not that bisexuals are more likely to have STD's or cheat.
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Very well said Coldwine!!!!
I guess there's a great double standard when it comes to men being bisexual. When a woman wants to bring home another woman, men are all for it.
Again WTH??? This question was directed at the womenfolk. And there is no double standard here. And if I were bisexual, my heterosexual boyfriend would not want me bringing home a woman to do a threesome with. He actually would be rather horrified if I did... just as I would be if he brought home a man to join us in our bedroom.
And if that's being vanilla, then so be it. Call us boring people, but it's not going to make us change our ways in order to be cool and hip to the likes of you.
OP is this question about you? I kinda got that feeling from reading some of your posts in the past. Don't expect your wife/GF to think it's all good.
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Ladies, How would you react if your Husband/BF told you he was Bisexual?
Don't let the door hit you on the a$$ on your way out the door."
