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Old 01-15-2010, 02:24 PM
 
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Since most of the women here wouldn't be interested in sharing their man with another man...

How about you men?

How would you react if your girlfriend/wife told you she was bi-sexual?

What if she wanted to continue to be with girls (as well as be with you...)
I'd have to find out if this was going to benefit me somehow before I gave a definitive answer....
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Old 01-15-2010, 02:26 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Hahahahaha, I kinda find it funny that the men simply assume that her friends would WANT to be with them, too! I'm not bisexual and I don't have any friends who are but from the looks of their husbands, all I could say is NO THANKS if I was bi! They say love is blind and that does seem to be the case!

So, sorry, fellas. The girlfriends just may not be into you! I'd be interested in hearing the responses from men if they know they're not going to get anything out of it!
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Old 01-15-2010, 02:30 PM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
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Hahahahaha, I kinda find it funny that the men simply assume that her friends would WANT to be with them, too! I'm not bisexual and I don't have any friends who are but from the looks of their husbands, all I could say is NO THANKS if I was bi! They say love is blind and that does seem to be the case!

So, sorry, fellas. The girlfriends just may not be into you! I'd be interested in hearing the responses from men if they know they're not going to get anything out of it!
I've had three-somes before whilst on holiday in Portugal and Turkey. It's not all it's cracked up to be. It's very meh...I'd much rather have straight one-on-one sex. If my wife wanted a three-some, I would definitely say NO THANKS as well. If she insisted, I'd tell her to hit the road, and close the door after you, and don't come back.
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Old 01-15-2010, 05:52 PM
 
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Hahahahaha, I kinda find it funny that the men simply assume that her friends would WANT to be with them, too! I'm not bisexual and I don't have any friends who are but from the looks of their husbands, all I could say is NO THANKS if I was bi! They say love is blind and that does seem to be the case!

So, sorry, fellas. The girlfriends just may not be into you! I'd be interested in hearing the responses from men if they know they're not going to get anything out of it!
I've seen many bi polls, but none I've seen have asked if the female(s) is/are NOT interested in including you.

For my answer, I cannot answer yes or no as the situation varies...First, if she told me she was bi, I'd be somewhat ok with it and wouldn't leave her. If WE go to a nightspot and a girl wants to bring her home, without me even being there the answer is no. I would need some inclusion, even if it were just to watch. After I have received some inclusion, would be less opposed to girl only alone time assuming it's the same girl.
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Old 01-15-2010, 09:02 PM
 
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So, sorry, fellas. The girlfriends just may not be into you! I'd be interested in hearing the responses from men if they know they're not going to get anything out of it!
Pretty straight-forward then, dontcha think?

She's allowed to have sex with someone else and I'm not?

Or even if I am...... Not sure I'm keen on the whole "open marriage" thing....

May as well ask "Do you mind if your wife cheats on you?"
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Old 01-15-2010, 09:07 PM
 
Location: Clear Lake, Houston TX
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When my mind is in the gutter, I'd encourage it just like we were making a movie.

When my mind comes back to the real world, my question is this. Once you open the door to her being with other women-- who's to say she won't go for other men?
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Old 01-15-2010, 09:12 PM
 
Location: DFW
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Or even if I am...... Not sure I'm keen on the whole "open marriage" thing....

May as well ask "Do you mind if your wife cheats on you?"
Is it cheating if you are there with her and enjoying the little 3 some ?
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Old 01-15-2010, 11:21 PM
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Not for me. Straight only please. I'm not one of those guys that enjoys seeing two women kiss either. Sorry.

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Old 01-16-2010, 10:02 AM
 
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Is it cheating if you are there with her and enjoying the little 3 some ?
Not in my opinion... Isn't cheating if both are participating and are fully aware. I've always felt that cheating involves deception and the partner being unaware that there is extra-curricular activity occuring...
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Old 01-16-2010, 10:16 AM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
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Not for me. Straight only please. I'm not one of those guys that enjoys seeing two women kiss either. Sorry.
Agree. Never saw the fascination about that. It does nothing for me. I only want straight women.
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