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Old 01-15-2010, 09:31 PM
 
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Just asking. Let's say somebody never experienced either before. Could they be affected mentally especially in a society like America where love and sex is seen as a must?
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Old 01-15-2010, 09:35 PM
 
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I think it would only be if they feel terrible about it. There are the several asexual people who don't really care since they have no attraction for anyone....
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Old 01-15-2010, 09:47 PM
 
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Just asking. Let's say somebody never experienced either before. Could they be affected mentally especially in a society like America where love and sex is seen as a must?
No, I'm still here. I have before but the last was 7 years ago! I'm lonely but fine.
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Old 01-15-2010, 09:56 PM
 
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Could this be why you chose the name Angerinthenation ?

Anger issues for never having a relationship or never having a relationship because you are so angry ?

Sounds like the chicken or the egg ?
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Old 01-15-2010, 10:14 PM
 
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Just asking. Let's say somebody never experienced either before. Could they be affected mentally especially in a society like America where love and sex is seen as a must?
I absolutely believe that a person can become affected by a perceived lack of love in their life.
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Old 01-15-2010, 10:32 PM
 
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Could this be why you chose the name Angerinthenation ?

Anger issues for never having a relationship or never having a relationship because you are so angry ?

Sounds like the chicken or the egg ?


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Old 01-15-2010, 10:34 PM
 
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People can be negatively affected by ANYTHING. But love doesn't only mean "romantic/sexual" love. People can be without a spouse or significant other and still be surrounded by loving, fulfilling relationships. People can be alone and not be lonely. Being unmarried or celibate does not automatically resign one to a state of mental dis-ease.
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Old 01-15-2010, 10:52 PM
 
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People can be alone and not be lonely. Being unmarried or celibate does not automatically resign one to a state of mental dis-ease.
True, but I don't feel that extremely long periods of isolation is good either. It's just something that humans need regardless if we want to put up with the BS of relationships or not, the difference is, the desire does not reveal itself as urgent as hunger or thirst.
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Old 01-16-2010, 01:02 AM
 
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I think it would only be if they feel terrible about it. There are the several asexual people who don't really care since they have no attraction for anyone....
How could that happen? They have no hormones so they remain a child forever? If they go through puberty, they will have sexual feelings. Won't they?
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Old 01-16-2010, 02:47 AM
 
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How could that happen? They have no hormones so they remain a child forever? If they go through puberty, they will have sexual feelings. Won't they?
Well, there are ways to deal without a partner...people have been doing it since day 1. And some people have always chosen a celibate life and seem to survive.
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