Why don't men pursue women anymore? (seeking, settling, Georgia, money)

[Dorrans]

Originally Posted by solytaire

Cast it aside as nonsense and wait for someone else, who's answer you do like, to tell you why men dont approach women.

That is what I don't quite get it from the OP, you know. Are we, men, not allowed to say what we prefer and what we find attractive. There is not a rule book to this. I find it cringe worthy that the OP, and a few other women, are throwing their arms up in frustration cos they are not getting the answer that THEY like.

Each has their own preference and likes and dislikes. I have no problems with the OP's preference of men doing the pursuing, but she should stop expecting every man to be like that.

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by max's mama

How much do you wanna bet that relationship with a woman that YOU pursued will last longer then the one where SHE did the pursuing? Huh? How much? You can scream all you want about the equality, at the end of the day, you want someone and attracted to someone who is not easy to get. And it's not about playing games. This is how it has been from the beginning of times. It's wired in you my friend. You can deny it all you want.

WHy would we want somone thast hard to get?

I dont like challenges or bs at all if you like me and i like you then lets express it not play stupid games..

The only guys who may like challegnes are guys who women are throwing themselves at [which are very few] because they get bored by easily getitgn women and want a challenge..

A guy like me who has enough trouble with women as it is i dont need anymroe challenges meeting then then i already have..

[applejuice]

[quote=max's mama;12519386]

Finally, a man with balls.

AGREE!!!

[JBT1980]

Originally Posted by Dorrans

That is what I don't quite get it from the OP, you know. Are we, men, not allowed to say what we prefer and what we find attractive. There is not a rule book to this. I find it cringe worthy that the OP, and a few other women, are throwing their arms up in frustration cos they are not getting the answer that THEY like.

Each has their own preference and likes and dislikes. I have no problems with the OP's preference of men doing the pursuing, but she should stop expecting every man to be like that.

Seriously..The op wants her knight in shining armor to come out and sweep her off her feet which isnt reality

If anyone wants something bad enough and its not coming to you try to go out and get it yourself if not dont complain..

[Dorrans]

Originally Posted by JBT1980

Seriously..The op wants her knight in shining armor to come out and sweep her off her feet which isnt reality

If anyone wants something bad enough and its not coming to you try to go out and get it yourself if not dont complain..

Exactly. And she is dismissing every answer that is different to her opinion. She only want replys from those who share same viewpoint as her. She's getting loads of different answers from men of all demographics and age groups. She should take the advice and posts on board and just consider it. I have no problems with her wanting a man to sweep her off her feet and be her shining armour blah de blah, but to discredit and dismiss every other man's opinion and tell us we have no balls and whatnot is just ridiculous.

[2RUGGED4YOU]

Originally Posted by Dorrans

That is what I don't quite get it from the OP, you know. Are we, men, not allowed to say what we prefer and what we find attractive. There is not a rule book to this. I find it cringe worthy that the OP, and a few other women, are throwing their arms up in frustration cos they are not getting the answer that THEY like.

Each has their own preference and likes and dislikes. I have no problems with the OP's preference of men doing the pursuing, but she should stop expecting every man to be like that.

Someone is getting pursued as we speak?LOL......

[Dorrans]

Originally Posted by 2RUGGED4YOU

Someone is getting pursued as we speak?LOL......

Lol. I have been pursued many times before. I thought it was great.
I have done the pursuing more though.

[2RUGGED4YOU]

Originally Posted by Dorrans

Lol. I have been pursued many times before. I thought it was great.
I have done the pursuing more though.

I do both. I am trying something different this time and it seems to be working?LOL.......... ******crosses fingers*****

[gwynedd1]

A small instillation of soldiers were in New Guinea. One could always tell how long they were there. Seeing as they were in the jungle, bugs were everywhere and they could not keep them out of the flour. The newest would not even eat the bread. After awhile, some would begin to pick out the bugs. Even longer, others would eat it in resignation, and then with complete apathy. Finally, one man on a new shipment of flour refused to eat bread with no bugs.

The rejection of women is sublime. Its like a bat swing, each with her style of abhorrence at the pathetic prospect she must behold. I remember the rejection more tenderly and sweetly because I was free to do it again. When she said yes, I sometimes ended up with a girlfriend, and it could get a little boring. I miss the rejection.

[llratke]

Originally Posted by HansProof

ErrrrrrAHHHH!!! Damn it...this thread pisses me off! Makes me wanna go kick a puppy...

But your comment keeps us laughing