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OO-OOOO!!!!! Please write a thread about this guy!!!! This is sooo freakin' funny! He's like every weird commitment-phobic dude I've ever met all wrapped up.
In my younger and dumber days I had a BF with a similar issue. Granted, even though he’d been separated for a long time, he wasn’t legally divorced and there were other considerations, but I’m pretty sure what freaked him out the most was the fact that when sometimes I was alone at his place I’d clean a little bit or give him a hand with the laundry.
A guy I had been dating for about three weeks bought me a toothbrush to keep at his place. It freaked me out a bit because I thought he was moving a bit fast but we kept dating. About ten months later when i'd just returned from four months overseas I made dinner reservations at a fancy restaurant to celebrate being home and back together. He flipped out because I didn't ask him prior to making the reservation. I only made the reservation when I did because I hadn't been able to reach him in a couple days and the restaurant is very small. He told me that I was making assumptions and committing his time. It was a dinner reservation, not a plane reservation. Sheesh! He dumped me two days later. Guess I learned my lesson
A guy I had been dating for about three weeks bought me a toothbrush to keep at his place. It freaked me out a bit because I thought he was moving a bit fast but we kept dating. About ten months later when i'd just returned from four months overseas I made dinner reservations at a fancy restaurant to celebrate being home and back together. He flipped out because I didn't ask him prior to making the reservation. I only made the reservation when I did because I hadn't been able to reach him in a couple days and the restaurant is very small. He told me that I was making assumptions and committing his time. It was a dinner reservation, not a plane reservation. Sheesh! He dumped me two days later. Guess I learned my lesson
Good riddance. Looked like he was looking for a (lame) excuse.
In my younger and dumber days I had a BF with a similar issue. Granted, even though he’d been separated for a long time, he wasn’t legally divorced and there were other considerations, but I’m pretty sure what freaked him out the most was the fact that when sometimes I was alone at his place I’d clean a little bit or give him a hand with the laundry.
Oh, well, the days I’m talking about were old days in old countries... when doing nice and helpful things for those you love was something natural and there was no "relationship advice" in any shape or form.
In my younger and dumber days I had a BF with a similar issue. Granted, even though he’d been separated for a long time, he wasn’t legally divorced and there were other considerations, but I’m pretty sure what freaked him out the most was the fact that when sometimes I was alone at his place I’d clean a little bit or give him a hand with the laundry.
It's good to see you doing some cleaning & laundry, Hon...
I would have really loved that gesture. But I think the way it's done could be creepy. If you just hand him a lightbulb it could come off wierd, but calling him to let him know you are picking up some lightbulbs or, if you're already there and you say 'I saw you needed a lightbulb' gives him some kind of warning. I don't know; it's different strokes, but overall it says a lot of positive about you.
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