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Ok.....so sharing your credit card and account information with someone that you are not legally bound to in any way is.....a good idea????? So, right now, neither one of you has done anything with that information. Yet.
What if you break up? You realize that he could ruin your credit within minutes, if he wanted to?
I could ruin his too if I wanted to. Luckily we are not that kind of people.
...talking to his ex-girlfriend after snooping on his phone. He actually called her up and asked her out after we had a fight, but he later changed his mind and ended up not going out at all.
What I found was a series of voicemails and texts from her asking him if he's still coming, and to please call her, and the last one calling him a jerk for standing her up!
I immediately confronted him and as usual he went on and on about how he was very angry but then got back to his senses and realized he can't do that and that he was sorry and that he has never cheated and never will blah blah blah. He said he does not have many people to talk with and he just wanted to vent to her. I really don't get this.
Now I almost talked to this girl (she answered but I hang up the phone) but thought that would very silly and childish. I didn't even know what to say to her.
Does this guy deserve any chance at all? I love him but I feel my trust is completely broken at this point. How do people get past this type of thing?
Women always strive to land the guy with "options" and then agonize and whine when he exercises them.
The era of concubines and harems was less complicated for women. They didn't have to worry where they stood in a relationship.
Ah. You don't seem particularly content in this relationship. You bring up many issues you have and seem to want to leave, but then you talk yourself back out of it when people agree with you.
Ah. You don't seem particularly content in this relationship. You bring up many issues you have and seem to want to leave, but then you talk yourself back out of it when people agree with you.
Thanks. I have not done this before so I'm actually nervous. If she chooses to cooperate then that would put me in a better position to decide.. But what if I get a negative reaction?
Prepare yourself for either response. Play them both over in your head. Please don't make the mistake of attacking her though. That can only end badly for both of you. If he did the same thing to her, you could have a kindred spirit there!
...talking to his ex-girlfriend after snooping on his phone. He actually called her up and asked her out after we had a fight, but he later changed his mind and ended up not going out at all.
What I found was a series of voicemails and texts from her asking him if he's still coming, and to please call her, and the last one calling him a jerk for standing her up!
I immediately confronted him and as usual he went on and on about how he was very angry but then got back to his senses and realized he can't do that and that he was sorry and that he has never cheated and never will blah blah blah. He said he does not have many people to talk with and he just wanted to vent to her. I really don't get this.
Now I almost talked to this girl (she answered but I hang up the phone) but thought that would very silly and childish. I didn't even know what to say to her.
Does this guy deserve any chance at all? I love him but I feel my trust is completely broken at this point. How do people get past this type of thing?
You left out the part where you tell us that you did or did not break up during the fight. Also left out a sense of timeframe.
These are rather important facts and I fear you are omitting them to make your story more sympathetic?
Also, why were you fighting? What happened?
P.S. You don't love him. If you did, you wouldn't be thinking about never seeing him again because he TALKED with his ex-gf and never met up with her.
If you don't trust someone, you don't love them. Trust comes with love, it is essential, and not evident in this story. Period end of story nothing else to see here.
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