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Old 10-23-2010, 11:40 AM
Location: Clayton, MO
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Originally Posted by mandavaran View Post
. As a young man, I was very similiar in appearance to my younger brother. Same height, hair color, similar facial features. The main difference was that he was muscular and a body builder type and I had a slender build. Guess who got all the female attention? And he didn't have a great personality. He was just as dull as I was! All the women fixated on were his big muscles.
Can I break it down for you? If we have the choices as you present above: Dull guy with good body....or dull guy without body definition, then isn't is logical?

Lets say hypothetically that you only have two choices.
1) a boring woman who has a nice body.
2) a boring woman who is overweight.

Are you trying to say that you would not chose the one with the nice body, since they are both boring but you had to chose one for a date?

Now...if in your situation with you and your brother, if your brother was dull and you had an awesome personality and were really interesting, then that would be a different story.

Originally Posted by mandavaran View Post
usually in their 40's and 50's, make fools of themselves propositioning and flirting with the young studs that frequent the place. They won't have anything to do with the perfectly decent middle age guys
You can't speak for all of us. I for one have never been intersted in the "young bucks". I like men who are a little older than me. My current beau is 14 years my senior.

Sure, you are going to have cougars in life. But they are equal to the amount of middle age men who will only look at young women.

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