U.S. CitiesCity-Data Forum Index
Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
 [Register]
Please register to participate in our discussions with 1.5 million other members - it's free and quick! Some forums can only be seen by registered members. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads.
Jump to a detailed profile or search
site with Google Custom Search

Search Forums  (Advanced)
Business Search - 14 Million verified businesses
Search for:  near: 
Reply Start New Thread
 
Old 01-26-2010, 03:57 PM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
1,125 posts, read 1,249,662 times
Reputation: 1015

Advertisements

Tbf, he has a point. I just think he has come across some bitter loser biitches who only wants men who spend money on them. He needs to change his surroundings and socialise with REAL women, not little bimbos. I know the type he talks bout. I've come across them. But I've avoided them, and unfortunately he hasn't.

My dad has taught me a lot of how to hold tight to my wallet and ONLY spend money on a woman you have a serious settled relationship with. A man has to be super careful who he spends money on, cos there are loads of money-hungry biitches who love leaving a man's account dry. DavieJ needs to meet different type of women, better quality women, plus he needs to change his attitude a little cos it's too pessimistic and not nice.

Quote:
Originally Posted by calipoppy View Post
Why should I work hard to keep myself in shape, dress nicely, educate myself, earn a good living, save money, buy real estate, etc, etc only to settle for a guy who hasn't put in the effort?
Problem is if it was those type of women only was demanding rich men, then fine, they deserve it. But you see broke arse women who want a man who earns X amount of money per year, and to provide for them. And men resent that. They got nothing going on for them, yet they want a man to provide and purchase everything they desire. Obviously, those are the slappers men need to avoid. I think that's the difference between the women who work hard, educated and got lot going on for them and the ones who are still daddy's little girl and want all that and a bag of chips.

I do agree with you though fundamentally speaking, people want what they are. A hard working woman shouldn't be with a lazy slob. And hard working men shouldn't be with lazy no-mark slobs either.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message

 
Old 01-26-2010, 06:44 PM
 
Location: Eternal State of Confusion
7,319 posts, read 8,697,199 times
Reputation: 9502
Quote:
Originally Posted by Dorrans View Post
Tbf, he has a point. I just think he has come across some bitter loser biitches who only wants men who spend money on them. He needs to change his surroundings and socialise with REAL women, not little bimbos. I know the type he talks bout. I've come across them. But I've avoided them, and unfortunately he hasn't.

My dad has taught me a lot of how to hold tight to my wallet and ONLY spend money on a woman you have a serious settled relationship with. A man has to be super careful who he spends money on, cos there are loads of money-hungry biitches who love leaving a man's account dry. DavieJ needs to meet different type of women, better quality women, plus he needs to change his attitude a little cos it's too pessimistic and not nice.

Do you really believe HE has a lot of experience with those "bitter loser ******* who only wants men to spend money on them"????

The guy is 20 and I find it hard to believe that his attitude towards women developed because of his experiences with "gold digging" women. If he was 30, then maybe I might buy it. How many 18-20 year olds are really looking for men with money?!?! Usually they're just interested in the guy in their literature class and not looking for a financial investor.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-26-2010, 06:59 PM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
1,125 posts, read 1,249,662 times
Reputation: 1015
Well, I dunno why else he would have such attitude then. Either way, he needs to drop that and get a new outlook on life and relationships.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-26-2010, 07:03 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
6,766 posts, read 7,870,884 times
Reputation: 6306
Quote:
Originally Posted by TheImportersWife View Post
Do you really believe HE has a lot of experience with those "bitter loser ******* who only wants men to spend money on them"????

The guy is 20 and I find it hard to believe that his attitude towards women developed because of his experiences with "gold digging" women. If he was 30, then maybe I might buy it. How many 18-20 year olds are really looking for men with money?!?! Usually they're just interested in the guy in their literature class and not looking for a financial investor.
Pffft...I've read his threads. He has pretty recently had his heart broken and thinks he is still in love w/ the girl. Then in every other thread he refers to women as "stupid betches" or "dumb w***es".

He's 20 and makes 9 dollars an hour, he's never met a gold digger.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-26-2010, 07:08 PM
 
Location: southern california
50,364 posts, read 47,810,582 times
Reputation: 41787
to be fair women get talked bad about for being interested for $$$$ reasons. but here is another viewpoint
money can be used to buy a mans freedom. a long term lease agreement, a generous one, is a far better deal for the affluent older man than an outright purchase, which is rampant with litigation and breach of contract.
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-26-2010, 09:00 PM
Status: "Wilson is innocent, get over it and learn how to read." (set 27 days ago)
 
Location: Northern panhandle of WV
1,621 posts, read 1,586,923 times
Reputation: 1339
Quote:
Originally Posted by calipoppy View Post
Yet many men believe that having the most attractive women on their arm will make them happy.

Women are called gold diggers for wanting a husband who is a good provider which we are genetically programmed to want.

Why should I work hard to keep myself in shape, dress nicely, educate myself, earn a good living, save money, buy real estate, etc, etc only to settle for a guy who hasn't put in the effort?

Why would I be considered a gold digger to want a man who has accomplished at least as much as I have or more?
I really don't get the attitude women like you have you make it sound like you deserve a millionaire that looks like Brad Pitt just because you're not fat. I've never bought into the whole men go for looks and women go for money line. Most women care about looks just as much as men do whereas only a certain percentage of women chase money. You tread on dangerous ground with some of your thoughts I can tell you judge a man just by what he makes or what his net worth is. Huge mistake. If the man isn't judging you or sizing you up on every minute detail why would you do that to him? You just sound like a gold digger that is seriously trying to justify it. No woman deserves a guy with money just because she looks a certain way or because she went to college or whatever. Feminism through that stuff out the window babe! If you want a decent guy you better make sure you have a good personality first. Pretty women are a dime a dozen it doesn't really give you that much of an advantage. The genetic programming stuff is another line of crap if that's true then all the feminists were wrong since feminism states a woman does not need a provider. So who was right..the biologists or the feminists? Take your pick. Furthermore I'd like to know the definition of a good provider. I don't think that included needing to drive around in a $40,000.00 car now does it since that would qualify as a want not a "need".

Last edited by wanderlust76; 01-26-2010 at 09:11 PM..
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
 
Old 01-27-2010, 01:20 PM
 
Location: Western Washington
7,990 posts, read 5,479,597 times
Reputation: 19170
Quote:
Originally Posted by TheImportersWife View Post
Do you really believe HE has a lot of experience with those "bitter loser ******* who only wants men to spend money on them"????

The guy is 20 and I find it hard to believe that his attitude towards women developed because of his experiences with "gold digging" women. If he was 30, then maybe I might buy it. How many 18-20 year olds are really looking for men with money?!?! Usually they're just interested in the guy in their literature class and not looking for a financial investor.
How many guys in their 20s have any friggin gold to DIG!!?? OH PLEASE! Sorry if I'm stereotyping here, but any "gold" these young men got their hands on has been spent on video games, cars/stereos, drugs/alcohol, etc. In other words....spent on themselves! They think they have something to bring to the table if they're spending time with a gal instead of their "bro's". Not all guys are like that at 20, but a whole crapload of them are. As for calling gals derogatory names...no self-respecting female is going to have anything to do with jerks who talk about women that way. How stupid would you have to be to be with someone like that? .....to live in a delusion that tells you he's not talking about YOU that way behind your back. Duh!
Reply With Quote Quick reply to this message
Please register to post and access all features of our very popular forum. It is free and quick. Over $68,000 in prizes has already been given out to active posters on our forum. Additional giveaways are planned.

Detailed information about all U.S. cities, counties, and zip codes on our site: City-data.com.


Reply
Please update this thread with any new information or opinions. This open thread is still read by thousands of people, so we encourage all additional points of view.

Quick Reply
Message:

Over $89,000 in prizes was already given out to active posters on our forum and additional giveaways are planned!

Go Back   City-Data Forum > General Forums > Relationships
Similar Threads

All times are GMT -6.

2005-2014, Advameg, Inc.

City-Data.com - Archive 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13, 14, 15, 16, 17, 18, 19, 20, 21, 22, 23, 24, 25 - Top