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Old 01-24-2010, 10:35 AM
 
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If you don't wanna do it, then quit whining and take initiative and suggest something. This is what I hate about girls like you. You take zero initiative and you whine and ***** when he suggest something that you don't want to. He can't win.

Invite him out, and pay for everything. But I doubt you will do that.
yes, I take zero initiative.b/c that's how the dating is supposed to be..guys chase...girls choose..


I never paid on the first three dates... it is HIS great pleasure to have me on a date...what I pay is my time..
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Old 01-24-2010, 10:36 AM
 
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he hasn't taken me to a nice restaurant for dinner yet!!!
Seriously, are you kidding me!?
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Old 01-24-2010, 10:36 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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he hasn't taken me to a nice restaurant for dinner yet!!!
Oh no he don`t!! He has to take you out for dinner, and pay for it, before any movie at his place.
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Old 01-24-2010, 10:36 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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yes, I take zero initiative.b/c that's how the dating is supposed to be..guys chase...girls choose..


I never paid on the first three dates... it is HIS great pleasure to have me on a date...what I pay is my time..
Whatever... LOL
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Old 01-24-2010, 10:37 AM
 
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So is he just hitting it with no dinners. LOL

no way
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Old 01-24-2010, 10:37 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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1st date: coffee
2nd date: play pool
3rd date: his place with his friends for dinner


now he asked me to come over his place for a MOVIE? I feel a bit offended, do you think he wants to take advantage of me?

how should I answer him if I don't want to go to his place for a movie?
I don't see any reason for you to be offended and while he may very well want to take advantage of you...that isn't a for sure. Could be that he just wants to spend some time with you. Has he given you any indication that he's going to pounce on you while you're watching a movie?

If you don't want to go, then don't go. Like others have said, suggest something else but be prepared to foot the bill.
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Old 01-24-2010, 10:37 AM
 
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yes, I take zero initiative.b/c that's how the dating is supposed to be..guys chase...girls choose..


I never paid on the first three dates... it is HIS great pleasure to have me on a date...what I pay is my time..
What a trip. I'm suprised he's dated you this long. One does have a pretty high opinion of oneself doesn't one?!
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Old 01-24-2010, 10:38 AM
 
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Oh no he don`t!! He has to take you out for dinner, and pay for it, before any movie at his place.

exactly! it is such an effort to train this guy...maybe I should just not date him
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Old 01-24-2010, 10:39 AM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
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yes, I take zero initiative.b/c that's how the dating is supposed to be..guys chase...girls choose..


I never paid on the first three dates... it is HIS great pleasure to have me on a date...what I pay is my time..
You do have some deluded opinion on yourself. I'm surprised he has tolerated your crap for this long. I think you're a troll anyway.
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Old 01-24-2010, 10:39 AM
 
Location: 2nd state in the union...
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exactly! it is such an effort to train this guy...maybe I should just not date him
TRAIN the guy? Oh good Lord....you have a lot to learn.
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