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Old 01-24-2010, 01:17 PM
 
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Hmmm....well its 2010 here and raining.

How's the air in lala land where you think you get good things for free or cheap?
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Old 01-24-2010, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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so guys are expecting women to pay for dates half-half???

don't they have
some pride?? you are a man, then be a man! dont be cheap
This is the year 2010 sweetie. If that's how you think things should be, you may be want to try dating someone over 45. In this time and especially this economy you should be wiliing to give as good as you get. A relationship is a partnership that starts on the first date. If you're not up for that you're the one that probably needs training if you want to be with someone of substance.

How old is the guy? Does he make a good living? Is he paying of tons of student loans or something? Does he have kids and pays lots of child support?
Just saying, "I'm a princess and I need to be treated as such" isn't going to get you too far unless you accidentally get pregnant by a doctor and he makes the sad mistake of marrying you.
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Old 01-24-2010, 01:18 PM
 
Location: Somewhere on Earth
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Hey guys...take notes

Look what you have to do to rise above your competition...

Pay for dinner

*gasp*

Freakin easy dudes!
If it'll get you to put out on the first date, then I'll be glad to pay for dinner on the first date
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Old 01-24-2010, 01:23 PM
 
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Sorry my vajay-jay is worth more than one dinner. No go. I think everyone's vajay-jay is for that matter. I would hope that the male would have more self respect for thier own body too.
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Old 01-24-2010, 01:26 PM
 
Location: Somewhere on Earth
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Sorry my vajay-jay is worth more than one dinner. No go. I think everyone's vajay-jay is for that matter. I would hope that the male would have more self respect for thier own body too.
If he hasn't put the moves onto her by the 3rd date, I think she found herself a keeper..

Personally, I would stop acting like a gentleman when the lady stops acting like a lady
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Old 01-24-2010, 01:28 PM
 
Location: South FL
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Nothing wrong with a woman paying sometimes. This happens in the real world

And PS: There's more to being a man than paying for dinner, for crying out loud.
No-no-no.
No woman should be paying on the fourth date. Sorry.
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Old 01-24-2010, 01:31 PM
 
Location: Somewhere on Earth
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No-no-no.
No woman should be paying on the fourth date. Sorry.
That woman shouldn't be going to that fourth date then. Sorry.

If you don't take the initiative to at least attempt to pay by the fourth date, then you'll be dumped as men are observant, especially when they are throwing out lots of dough through the door Unless of course, you are a gold digger or looking for a sugar daddy.
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Old 01-24-2010, 01:35 PM
 
Location: South FL
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That woman shouldn't be going to that fourth date then. Sorry.

If you don't take the initiative to at least attempt to pay by the fourth date, then you'll be dumped as men are observant, especially when they are throwing out lots of dough through the door Unless of course, you are a gold digger or looking for a sugar daddy.
This is such bull****, I want to throw up. What is going on in the dating world nowdays? Women are EXPECTED to pay for the fourth date? And if she doesn't, then she is a gold-digger. Wow, some men are real piece of work here on this forum.
This dude is cheap. Coffee, pool and all that is not putting out lots of dough. Taking a woman to a nice restaurant is not out of ordinary. It's part of a nice dating process. Nothing like a nice meal and a beautiful conversation. What kind of cheapskates do I see here? Damn, I wouldn't date any of ya if I was single.

Damn, what I see here on this forum lately, is bunch of dudes who are afraid to approach a woman, immediately jump to conclusions that if a woman wants a nice date, she is a gold digger and all that nonsense. Grow up and become MEN for crying out loud.
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Old 01-24-2010, 01:37 PM
 
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How's the air in lala land where you think you get good things for free or cheap?
"Lala land"? Oh honey, if you feel that a man living here in 2010 belongs in "Lala land" because he expects his girlfriend to give as much as she gets and for their relationship to be one that's based on mutual respect...I don't know what to tell you.

Maybe you'd have more success dating by going back a few... centuries to a time when gender roles were more concrete.
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Old 01-24-2010, 01:38 PM
 
Location: Tampa baby!!
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That woman shouldn't be going to that fourth date then. Sorry.

If you don't take the initiative to at least attempt to pay by the fourth date, then you'll be dumped as men are observant, especially when they are throwing out lots of dough through the door Unless of course, you are a gold digger or looking for a sugar daddy.
To be fair, he hasn't been throwing around lots of dough. She is giving him a good idea of what it would be like to be with her in the long run though if she is so selfish she can't pay for a fricken movie.
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