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Old 01-24-2010, 11:17 AM
 
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1st date: coffee
2nd date: play pool
3rd date: his place with his friends for dinner


now he asked me to come over his place for a MOVIE? I feel a bit offended, do you think he wants to take advantage of me?

how should I answer him if I don't want to go to his place for a movie?
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Old 01-24-2010, 11:20 AM
 
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WTH are you offended over all I see is a nice natural progression of things. I don't think seeing a movie at his place necessarily means he wants to take advantage of you and at some point you need to understand going out all the time can get a bit expensive. If it was your first date I can understand the apprehension but this is the 4th time he's seen you, entertained you, introduced you to his friends, I think you're safe.
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Old 01-24-2010, 11:23 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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Quit being a "girl".

Smack him around if you need to... Don't post on a public forum and act all weak about.
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Old 01-24-2010, 11:25 AM
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seems like a normal 4th date. if you dont wanna put out then dont
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Old 01-24-2010, 11:27 AM
 
Location: Tennessee
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1st date: coffee
2nd date: play pool
3rd date: his place with his friends for dinner


now he asked me to come over his place for a MOVIE? I feel a bit offended, do you think he wants to take advantage of me?

how should I answer him if I don't want to go to his place for a movie?
I don`t see any harm in going to his place for a movie. If you don`t want to be takin` advantage of.."just say no."

If you don`t feel that your ready to go to his place, then why not make another suggestion to do something diffrent?
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Old 01-24-2010, 11:29 AM
 
Location: uNDERwORLD
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go out to a movie!
don't end up being pawed at on his sofa at while watching bambi meets rambone!
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Old 01-24-2010, 11:30 AM
 
Location: Kuwait City, Kuwait.
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If you don't wanna do it, then quit whining and take initiative and suggest something. This is what I hate about girls like you. You take zero initiative and you whine and ***** when he suggest something that you don't want to. He can't win.

Invite him out, and pay for everything. But I doubt you will do that.
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Old 01-24-2010, 11:32 AM
 
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go out to a movie!
don't end up being pawed at on his sofa at while watching bambi meets rambone!
If she does offer to suggest GOING OUT to a movie she should be prepared to offer to pay for it.
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Old 01-24-2010, 11:33 AM
 
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he hasn't taken me to a nice restaurant for dinner yet!!!
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Old 01-24-2010, 11:34 AM
 
Location: So Cal
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he hasn't taken me to a nice restaurant for dinner yet!!!
So is he just hitting it with no dinners. LOL
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