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View Poll Results: Do you stay friends with mate poachers?
Yes - if the poacher is opposite sex 3 50.00%
No - if the poacher is opposite sex (or looking to date same sex) 3 50.00%
Yes - if the poacher is same sex 2 33.33%
No - if the poacher is same sex (or not looking to date same sex) 4 66.67%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 6. You may not vote on this poll

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Old 01-24-2010, 03:18 PM
 
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In all honestly, in principle I say I couldn't be friends with someone like this.

There are also different kinds of friends: best friends, friends for gatherings and social get-togethers and friends to just meet-up with. I think if this behavior (and to what degree it happened) became known to me they would be begin to be down-graded on my frienship scale.
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Old 01-24-2010, 03:20 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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I have a buddy who used to always do this. He is married now and doesn't do it anymore. I don't see him very much anymore either. He will still be my friend because we have known each other most of our lives. The funny thing that gets him riled is his wife always hits on me now!LOL........ Hold on there sister! You are married!
There's an old college saying. If you get a little gap wide enough to ride your bicycle, you should actually grab the opportunity and bring in your truck
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Old 01-24-2010, 03:26 PM
 
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Ah, Pitt, you gotta read this

http://www.city-data.com/forum/9712649-post18.html

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Potential-mate-poacher-in-chief
You better not hook up with that ho.

You know she is gonna give you the same what for!

Maybe a disease to boot because you know its wrong.

Karma herpes? Maybe...ouchie.

I love the quotes from clerks when it comes to hot dishes like that:

"I had some girlfriends too, but all they wanted from me is weed and ****. **** my grandmother used to say 'What's better, f****n', a good plate with nothin' on it... ' no wait I ****ed up. 'What's a good plate with nothing on it?' "
-jay

" You know, there's a million fine looking women in the world, dude. But they don't all bring you lasagna at work. Most of 'em just cheat on you. "
-silent bob
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Old 01-24-2010, 03:44 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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You better not hook up with that ho.

You know she is gonna give you the same what for!

Maybe a disease to boot because you know its wrong.

Karma herpes? Maybe...ouchie.

I love the quotes from clerks when it comes to hot dishes like that:

"I had some girlfriends too, but all they wanted from me is weed and ****. **** my grandmother used to say 'What's better, f****n', a good plate with nothin' on it... ' no wait I ****ed up. 'What's a good plate with nothing on it?' "
-jay

" You know, there's a million fine looking women in the world, dude. But they don't all bring you lasagna at work. Most of 'em just cheat on you. "
-silent bob


Your poaching thread triggered my memory back to connecticut, this afternoon and I've almost been debating on whether to check back on her or not.

She's stunning actually.

Vacillating thoughts
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Old 01-24-2010, 03:51 PM
 
Location: Western Washington
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Has anyone on here been asked to poach a mate?
Yep..... request denied, friendship downgraded. Do NOT suck me into your drama. LOL I have, over time, learned to choose my friends very, very carefully. I have only a few close friends, but those people are really amazing, trustworthy, kind folks. People I would trust with my life. I don't need a trainload of friends.....just a few really good ones.
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Old 10-10-2010, 03:42 AM
 
Location: Texas
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Nope. I would not make new friends with someone who did that.

If an old friend did that, I would tell him/her how I felt about it in no uncertain words.
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Old 10-11-2010, 01:58 AM
 
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No because I don't like sleazy people.
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