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Old 01-25-2010, 08:25 PM
 
Location: Florida
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Hi, yes I do believe there is a group of males out there who think that their gay...but really aren't....for whatever reason they, we're, attracted to other males...but our aim isn't to be 'gay' rather it's to be in a fun loving honest relationship...

Some guys just want to cuddle, hang out, and have fun, the way women do...with other males...but don't want to be 'gay'....guys like this are often tooken advantage of by 'true gay men'..who take advantage of them in their time of confusion and or lonliness...

Guys have a wide range of emotions, as do women do...some guys want to be feminane...but not 'gay'...they want to be able to confide in and talk about their feelings without the sexual element....

Either you know what I'm talking about or you don't...and if you don't than obviously this isn't for you....

But if you do 'get it'...than this is the thread to discuss those issues burning inside of you....

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Old 01-25-2010, 11:59 PM
 
Location: In my skin
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Hi, yes I do believe there is a group of males out there who think that their gay...but really aren't....for whatever reason they, we're, attracted to other males...but our aim isn't to be 'gay' rather it's to be in a fun loving honest relationship...

Some guys just want to cuddle, hang out, and have fun, the way women do...with other males...but don't want to be 'gay'....guys like this are often tooken advantage of by 'true gay men'..who take advantage of them in their time of confusion and or lonliness...

Guys have a wide range of emotions, as do women do...some guys want to be feminane...but not 'gay'...they want to be able to confide in and talk about their feelings without the sexual element....

Either you know what I'm talking about or you don't...and if you don't than obviously this isn't for you....

But if you do 'get it'...than this is the thread to discuss those issues burning inside of you....
I think the Kinsey scale has merit. I believe there are degrees of attraction for the same sex. However, having emotions and wanting to confide in and talk about feelings has nothing to do with being gay. Being gay is about sexual orientation. Not acting on the attraction for men doesn't make a man any less gay if he is attracted solely to men.
 
Old 01-26-2010, 12:05 AM
 
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guys who like guys...but who aren't gay.
You really should lay off reading the fundamentalist "literature". They'll tell you anything to get you to donate.
 
Old 01-26-2010, 12:26 AM
 
Location: New Orleans
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I'm sorry this thread has me confused as a gay man!~
 
Old 01-26-2010, 05:08 AM
 
Location: Incognito
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I would love to know artsy's point of view on this topic.
 
Old 01-26-2010, 06:52 AM
 
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Some guys just want to cuddle, hang out, and have fun, the way women do...with other males...but don't want to be 'gay'
I don't know any straight man that wants to cuddle with another man -
 
Old 01-26-2010, 06:59 AM
 
Location: Back in the gym...Yo Adrian!
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Hi, yes I do believe there is a group of males out there who think that their gay...but really aren't....for whatever reason they, we're, attracted to other males...but our aim isn't to be 'gay' rather it's to be in a fun loving honest relationship...

Some guys just want to cuddle, hang out, and have fun, the way women do...with other males...but don't want to be 'gay'.

They're called bi-sexuals.
 
Old 01-26-2010, 11:26 AM
 
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You're still gay
 
Old 01-26-2010, 11:29 AM
 
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Was this gay ass picture necessary?
 
Old 01-26-2010, 03:11 PM
 
Location: St. Joseph Area
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I don't know any straight man that wants to cuddle with another man -
I don't either--
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