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Old 01-26-2010, 09:52 AM
 
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When I was younger, chasing girls and messing with them was a whole lot easier. Back in elementary school, I chased girls quite often while some flirted with me.

What I don't get is how I can't respark that today lol. I mean, in hs, while I did check some girls out, I didn't really become interested in them until my senior year.

So semi-rant aside, how come it's so much harder to do now than it was when I was a young kid? >_> I even went to OKCupid of all places.
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Old 01-26-2010, 09:55 AM
 
Location: My Private Island
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When I was younger, chasing girls and messing with them was a whole lot easier. Back in elementary school, I chased girls quite often while some flirted with me.

What I don't get is how I can't respark that today lol. I mean, in hs, while I did check some girls out, I didn't really become interested in them until my senior year.

So semi-rant aside, how come it's so much harder to do now than it was when I was a young kid? >_> I even went to OKCupid of all places.
Surely you are not comparing your elementary school experience to grown up? Because if you chase girls and mess with them now you could get arrested and charged with sexual harassment!
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Old 01-26-2010, 09:58 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas, NV
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When I was younger, chasing girls and messing with them was a whole lot easier. Back in elementary school, I chased girls quite often while some flirted with me.

What I don't get is how I can't respark that today lol. I mean, in hs, while I did check some girls out, I didn't really become interested in them until my senior year.

So semi-rant aside, how come it's so much harder to do now than it was when I was a young kid? >_> I even went to OKCupid of all places.
dont bother chasing girls. they will ruin your life. just focus on school that is important, go to a good college get a kickass job and makes loads of money then you can have all the women you want to blow you money for you
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Old 01-26-2010, 10:03 AM
 
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Surely you are not comparing your elementary school experience to grown up? Because if you chase girls and mess with them now you could get arrested and charged with sexual harassment!
No, I mean the principle lol.

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dont bother chasing girls. they will ruin your life. just focus on school that is important, go to a good college get a kickass job and makes loads of money then you can have all the women you want to blow you money for you
I'm in college at the moment trying to transfer soon. >:] But I want a girl to be independent rather than me be the chief money spender
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Old 01-26-2010, 11:45 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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Just concentrate on growing up and getting a good education. "Messing" with WOMEN will come in time.
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Old 01-26-2010, 12:01 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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You're now in college and your education should be the primary goal with, a very close second, social intermingling with fellow students both male and female. Worry less about your interaction with females as mates but rather as them as friends. You say you're going to transfer college soon but I'd still give you the same advice. You sound like an old man bewailing his lack of past opportunities when you're so young and your whole life is still ahead of you. Get involved, reach out to your peers and have some fun! Jeez!
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Old 01-26-2010, 12:01 PM
 
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I'm confused. I don't know whether to make fun of you or to consider your plight seriously.

You are comparing college to elementary school? Did your approach evolve over that duration?

Online dating sucks when you're a male younger than 30, and it is pure stupidity to use it when you are in college. Didn't we talk about that already?
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Old 01-26-2010, 12:42 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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When I was younger, chasing girls and messing with them was a whole lot easier. Back in elementary school, I chased girls quite often while some flirted with me.

What I don't get is how I can't respark that today lol. I mean, in hs, while I did check some girls out, I didn't really become interested in them until my senior year.

So semi-rant aside, how come it's so much harder to do now than it was when I was a young kid? >_> I even went to OKCupid of all places.
Because you aren't a young kid anymore and grown men chasing women is not cute
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