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Old 01-29-2010, 07:58 PM
 
Location: SW Missouri
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The cafe we went going to meet at around 8pm was closed when we got there and I was stunned. I did not expect a cafe in downtown philly to be closed at 8pm on a weeknight. So then we tried to go to another cafe and that was closed too and then I just said

"I will walk you to the bus stop and wait with you until your bus comes"


I said that because it was FREZZING and I didn't have a plan C so I figured we can get to know each other while we waited for her bus to come. So like 2mins later there was her bus and she decided to let it go pass abd continue talking to me in the COLD-lol So we talked and laugh for about 30 mins and then she got on the bus. I told her to call when she arrived home and she did but I did not get home yet. So I will call her before I go to sleep and set up another meeting for a weekend.


So that was the night, I wss FREEZING and for some reason my knee was not hurting when I walked toward her and around her. Only when she got on the bus and left and then the LIMP came back-lol


But in the furture I need to do a better job of planning and find out when places closed so i don't look like a FOOL. That happened to me years ago but the only difference was the place was closed down.

So I need to be a better planner
This is a mighty strange date. First of all, why didn't you pick her up and take her someplace like a "real restaurant" that is "for sure" open at 8 pm. Shoot even a Red Lobster or something for gosh sakes.

Maybe it is some kind of weird cultural Philly thing but I would not be letting my date go home in the dark by BUS. What if she gets robbed or mugged or raped. How would you feel? At the very least I would have seen her home and then returned on the bus to my hovel just to make sure she got home perfectly safe.

There is such a thing as common courtesy you know.

20yrsinBranson
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Old 01-29-2010, 08:24 PM
 
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She didn't leave a message
So? That means you can't return the call? Damn TVSG. Pick up the phone and call the girl.
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Old 01-29-2010, 08:27 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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So? That means you can't return the call? Damn TVSG. Pick up the phone and call the girl.

I will on Sunday and that will probably be it
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Old 01-29-2010, 08:31 PM
 
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I will on Sunday and that will probably be it
Why wait? It would be in your best interest, if you want to see her again, to call sooner rather than later.
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Old 01-29-2010, 08:33 PM
 
Location: SE Florida
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I told her to call when she arrived home and she did but I did not get home yet. So I will call her before I go to sleep and set up another meeting for a weekend.
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She called you as you requested letting you know that she made it home- leaving a message on your VM. And you responded by e-mail?!

One step forward........two steps back.

A light needs to come on soon or your mother will be the only woman who considers you worth it.
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She didn't leave a message
So your post about the call was misleading. But she did call. And you responded by e-mail.

I think that your intimacy issues, left unaddressed, will prevent you from having any kind of a relationship. You sound unwilling to risk rejection, so you establish bizarre rules that result in your perception that you are rejecting them first.
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Old 01-29-2010, 08:39 PM
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Why wait? It would be in your best interest, if you want to see her again, to call sooner rather than later.
I don't call women on Friday and Saturdays.
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Old 01-29-2010, 08:41 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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So your post about the call was misleading. But she did call. And you responded by e-mail.

I think that your intimacy issues, left unaddressed, will prevent you from having any kind of a relationship. You sound unwilling to risk rejection, so you establish bizarre rules that result in your perception that you are rejecting them first.

The point is I contacted her after meeting her
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Old 01-29-2010, 08:44 PM
 
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I don't call women on Friday and Saturdays.
WTF?? You just fell from grace buddy. Will you never learn?
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Old 01-29-2010, 08:47 PM
 
Location: Tulsa
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WTF?? You just fell from grace buddy. Will you never learn?
Anyone else wanting to pound their heads against their desk?
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Old 01-29-2010, 08:48 PM
 
Location: St Thomas, US Virgin Islands
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WTF?? You just fell from grace buddy. Will you never learn?
You didn't see this coming? The answer to the question is no.
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