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Unread 02-18-2010, 12:19 PM
 
Location: DFW - Coppell / Las Colinas
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Originally Posted by Onglet39 View Post
That's just absolutely false. How judgmental & full of yourself.....

....And it is a common trait among the swinger crowd.
You made a very valid point then you blew your credibility by doing exactly what you accuse him of doing.

Thus your last statement falls into what you just said "That's just absolutely false. How judgmental & full of yourself..."

It is not a common trait, most are very understanding of whatever lifestyle or relationship you choose and what works best for you and your partner. It's all about making relationships better.

 
Unread 02-18-2010, 12:19 PM
Status: "RIP, Kimura Jiroemon" (set 7 days ago)
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Originally Posted by Mr.Cat View Post
The only swing I did was at the batting cages.

At the cage, on the golf course or in the ring.

Otherwise, swinging is a dangerous, damaging type of relationship.
 
Unread 02-18-2010, 12:23 PM
 
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Originally Posted by DrummerBoy View Post
The dirty secret is that everyone who hasn't ever tried it secretly wants to.
Have you done a survey? I have no interest in trying it nor do all the people I've discussed it with.
 
Unread 02-18-2010, 12:27 PM
 
Location: Niles, Michigan
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Sexual sins go against everything that is true and good. Husband & wife are sacred.

For all that is in the world, the lust of the flesh, and the lust of the eyes, and the pride of life, is not of the father, but is of the world. 1 John 3:16
 
Unread 02-18-2010, 12:29 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Originally Posted by Rakin View Post
You made a very valid point then you blew your credibility by doing exactly what you accuse him of doing.

Thus your last statement falls into what you just said "That's just absolutely false. How judgmental & full of yourself..."

It is not a common trait, most are very understanding of whatever lifestyle or relationship you choose and what works best for you and your partner. It's all about making relationships better.
No, it is indeed common for swingers to say that. I wouldn't say "every" swinger does it, but it is common. I hear it very, very often, online and IRL. It is not unusual at all, and right on this very thread there is a real judgmental attitude among pro-swingers attempting to invalidate the thread starter's opinion.
 
Unread 02-18-2010, 12:38 PM
 
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Seriously I am with Onglet what he sayz every word is true - well I never want to get into any thing like that - i will kill my self but not get into it .. well if u love her ull not do it its as simple as that ... what if the kids come to know abt her mom getting swapped with so many other guyz coz the dad wanted to sleep with other women ...
 
Unread 02-18-2010, 12:40 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Originally Posted by KillMePlzzzzz View Post
Seriously I am with Onglet what he sayz every word is true - well I never want to get into any thing like that - i will kill my self but not get into it .. well if u love her ull not do it its as simple as that ... what if the kids come to know abt her mom getting swapped with so many other guyz coz the dad wanted to sleep with other women ...
I need a translator for this post.
 
Unread 02-18-2010, 12:42 PM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Originally Posted by Onglet39 View Post
No, it is indeed common for swingers to say that. I wouldn't say "every" swinger does it, but it is common. I hear it very, very often, online and IRL. It is not unusual at all, and right on this very thread there is a real judgmental attitude among pro-swingers attempting to invalidate the thread starter's opinion.
The only post that was at judgemental from "pro-swingers" was DrummerBoy's post, the one you responded to. One post from one person.
 
Unread 02-18-2010, 12:45 PM
Status: "RIP, Kimura Jiroemon" (set 7 days ago)
 
Location: Center of the universe
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Originally Posted by Capt. Dan View Post
I tend to be a pretty liberal guy in the sense that it really isnt any of my business what people do with thier lives and bodies. But I am also 100% man. Having said that, if a lady that was as FINE as, say Seenorita or Maxsmama was my lady, why in the #*#* would I ever want to share that with someone else????????????????????????
ya know?
 
Unread 02-18-2010, 12:45 PM
 
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Originally Posted by KillMePlzzzzz View Post
Seriously I am with Onglet what he sayz every word is true - well I never want to get into any thing like that - i will kill my self but not get into it .. well if u love her ull not do it its as simple as that ... what if the kids come to know abt her mom getting swapped with so many other guyz coz the dad wanted to sleep with other women ...
Quote:
Originally Posted by Onglet39 View Post
I need a translator for this post.
Translation:
Thinks you're a man - He thought about doing it, but then he realized that he'd rather die by his own hand than have his kids know that he swapped their mom.
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