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Old 01-28-2010, 03:42 PM
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Just maybe, if they get REAL upset, they can comfort them, and one thing leads to another, and "BANG".
that only works for people that live in a ****ty pg13 romantic comedy
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Old 01-28-2010, 03:42 PM
 
Location: southern california
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its really good to know who she has been dating it says volumns. as to abusive relationships.
9 out of 10 times she goes back to the abuser even with intervention.
its not your stuff, stay back. dont put on the shining armour, she likes dragons.
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:03 PM
 
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< looking over shoulder at the rest of the clan gathered on the village lawn for the evening show> Isn't this thread # 85 of the same topic? And yes, RUN from this kinda gal...and DON"T share any Candy w/her either..It is called Drama Queen..AKA crazy b...
Yeah. But every Drama Queen there's a some poor, enabling slob who thinks that if he just says enough soothing, comforting things, the woman will tear off her clothes and drag him to bed for a round or two of humpalumpadingdong.

That in itself is kind of pathetic because it means that guys like these are hoping to catch a woman at her most vulnerable, using that opportunity to woo her, rather than be a strong assertive man in his own right.
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Old 01-28-2010, 04:05 PM
 
Location: The cupboard under the sink
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Have you read a lot of the posters on here ? I think half of 'em do !

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that only works for people that live in a ****ty pg13 romantic comedy
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Old 01-28-2010, 11:59 PM
 
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I agree that a girl like that is a mess, but you know what's odd? It seems like so many so-called "nice guys" pine after hot messes just like that.
Women who aren't "messes" get quite nasty when nice guys come around. They call them boring and creepy, if they don't want to be real a$$holes. The nice guys just hope these other women will get fed up with being treated like trash. It may be a faint hope, but its something, at least.

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You know, I hate these kind of posts, because they manage to be self-pitying and self-congratulatory at the same time. As in, "Why can't women appreciate me for my nobility and purity?"

Here's the thing. Women don't love men because they're bad. Women love men who love their lives, who relish every moment, who are confident in their own skin, and respect themselves enough to not put up with BS.
On the subject of "self-congratulatory".............
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Old 01-29-2010, 01:21 AM
 
Location: corona, ca
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ha i havent answered anything on here yet, but its funny lol
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Old 01-29-2010, 01:36 AM
 
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It might be true sometimes, in which company loves misery. If they're seeking for more terrible treatment then you know what? They're good for each other because one person is applying horrible treatments while the other is enabling it. They are helping each other.

As for you, run very fast whenever you encounter those girls. Why would you want a needy woman that complains about how rocky her relationship is and uses you as a shoulder to cry on?
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Old 01-29-2010, 06:23 AM
 
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WTH is girlsand? Is it sand that smells like lavender?
Yes, Home Depot sells it for 5.95 a bag plus tax. If your neighbor is really irritating you, get this sand, place it down by your fence that faces him and put an electric fan outside and blow the smell towards him. At first they will like the smell of lavender but then it will become nauseating.

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Old 01-29-2010, 06:26 AM
 
Location: Between Philadelphia and Allentown, PA
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I've had female friends who were definitely into that whole "bad boy" look and attitude but those relationships never lasted. Personally, I was never into them. I've always dated clean cut, straight laced good ol' boys (probably because I'm the bad one LOL) and it's worked out. I'm in a long term relationship with a good ol' boy now and he's as squeeky clean, smart, good boy, loves his Mom, etc as they come. However, we just bought a Harley last year and we've been cruising everywhere on it totally being bikers LOL (he always rode a sport bike before then). Fun, fun, fun!
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Old 01-29-2010, 06:54 AM
 
Location: The Hall of Justice
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Women who aren't "messes" get quite nasty when nice guys come around. They call them boring and creepy, if they don't want to be real a$$holes. The nice guys just hope these other women will get fed up with being treated like trash. It may be a faint hope, but its something, at least.
It seems like you're trying to disagree with me, but I can't tell. A woman who is "nasty" to others and dates men who treat her "like trash" is exactly what I mean.

Woman who goes out with jerks, pouts about being mistreated but keeps going back to the jerks: mess

Man who martyrs himself for such a woman, then pouts about how she keeps going back to the jerks: hypocritical mess
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