a question to men (girlfriend, lesbians, gays, advice)
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been with my bf for 2 years - he is kinda old fashion - and 10 years older than me. Doesn't talk about sex - doesn't show affection - we really only have sex once a month. if you were him ( his type) would u consider it cheating if I went with a woman rather tahn a man???
OK! On a serious note, if you want to stay with him then stepping out in any way, with a man or a woman, is cheating on him given the boundaries of your relationship.
Just so you know, as more time passes, he will most likely be even LESS interested in sex. I hope he is great enough to make a sexless life OK with you.
I'd consider it cheating. If my wife was with another woman, it wouldn't bother me as much as if she was with another guy, but I'd still consider it cheating unless she asked me about it first and I agreed to it. If she asked first, I might say be okay with it -- especially if she'd share.
I'd consider it cheating. If my wife was with another woman, it wouldn't bother me as much as if she was with another guy, but I'd still consider it cheating unless she asked me about it first and I agreed to it. If she asked first, I might say be okay with it -- especially if she'd share.
screw it she isn't married, fair game as long as it isn't a friend of his. Doesn't show affection, once a month?, what does he expect?
Old fashioned my Ass! Sex is a very important part of a relationship Don't down play it. Don't lie to yourself about the situation. Why try to convince yourself that something is right when you know it's wrong.
In the earlier thread about the guy getting his gf pregnant when she went off birth control to snag him and he was not sure about whether to go forward with the relationship. He then found someone who he was sure about and had a child with her.............
I was wondering how long it was until I'd see a post like this.
I guess all unmarried guys should freeze some sperm and get a vasectomy to keep women happy and not get taken advantage of. Damned if you do and damned if you don't!
I haven't read any other posts, sorry if this duplicates anyone elses.
OP, would you consider it cheating if your boyfriend was to go with another man ?
Or another woman ?
Now, what was your question ?................................
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Originally Posted by loveandlive
been with my bf for 2 years - he is kinda old fashion - and 10 years older than me. Doesn't talk about sex - doesn't show affection - we really only have sex once a month. if you were him ( his type) would u consider it cheating if I went with a woman rather tahn a man???
If I were involved, or asked, I would agree to it.
Of course, this guy is old fashioned, so I doubt you're going to get a positive answer out of this.
If he doesn't know, yeah, its cheating. I would just end it, and make yourself happy. Most men I know are happy to see you with another woman, if they were involved in the situation in some way.
It's cheating no matter which gender you wish to sleep with. You are in a commited relationship although, why are you only have sex once a month? I had sex more than that even when I was pregnant back in the day LOL
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