men, please translate what was said to me (how to, husband, family)

[picklejuice]

Originally Posted by mango tango

Why does she need a rebound man?

Nah, I think I'll skip the therapy and just stick with having hot, passionate sex with a guy that likes to cuddle afterwards and cook me dinner while reading me Byron's poetry. I must say, it's awfully wonderful to experience those things called. . . hmm. . . what was it again? Oh yes - feelings.

Sorry-I just can't help it!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CyBcHUe4WeQ

[KickAssArmyChick]

He is keeping you at arm's length until something better comes by.

I am not a guy....but that's exactly what it looks like.

[JSizzle225]

I don't know what he meant by it. You realize guys don't talk good, right?

[jillz]

Originally Posted by maddog1

how do i become ms right

Unless you already are, chances are you won't be. Sorry! He is being honest and you can either take it for what it is worth or try to change him. Clue for you, you won't be able to change anyone. You should want someone who wants you as is and not try to become Ms. Right.

[lyzzard]

So, after all these interesting, and mostly accurate answers, what are you going to do?

[sierraAZ]

Originally Posted by lyzzard

So, after all these interesting, and mostly accurate answers, what are you going to do?

Same! We've told her what the big picture is countless times and she keeps posting bits and pieces...

[Snort]

He's giving you a good reason to move on. That's how I read it.

[MMichelle]

He will be with you until he finds something better.
Drop this guy like a rock!

Back in the day we used to call guys like this womenizers. Unlike wifebeaters, they are kind, charming, ... your basic nice guy but they are using you for all your are worth.

I've known this type of man. There is no future with him. Only loneliness and tears. He will keep you on a string, dangle a carrot ... you will never be anything more than a girlfriend when he has nothing better to do.
RUN!!!

[pitt_transplant]

Originally Posted by maddog1

ok, so I shouldn't believe the I love you, either?

No. Its just words. That is the "sugar." The rest of this treatment is sh**.
But roll a turd in sugar...its still a turd.

[mango tango]

Originally Posted by sierraAZ

Same! We've told her what the big picture is countless times and she keeps posting bits and pieces...

I'm just amazed that a woman in her 30s/40s is acting this clueless. I honestly refuse to believe that someone is this dense when it comes to other people and relationships. Perhaps her feelings are diluting her common sense?