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Spending money to divorce is one thing for legal reasons.
Spending money to support a marriage that is broken and justify all the reasons the other person believes they are entitled to your paycheck is another thing.
This is not about how women suck.
I love women I just think once women who want a divorce have a system that is unfair against men and the income discussion. Which is why every man needs a PREN UP and that is all I am saying.
It doesn't matter if you are a man or woman. When I got divorced I made twice as much as he and I had to pay him off. So I am the one who lost, had to go thru bankruptcy, pay the lawyer and all that accompanying crap. But you know what it was all worth it to not be married to him anymore. I can always make more money. Plus what he drug me through only proved to all around us how big a ***** he was and why I was divorcing him.
We need an emoticon of a dead horse being whacked with a stick....this subject has been beaten into the afterlife!
Maybe, but until the divorce and custody laws are brought into parity for both sexes, and women aren't the default victims, this is real to many people.
child support is backdoor alimony. That's why there is zero obligation for the custodial parent to cough up any reciepts or proof the money was used on the child.
If the courts actually cared about the children and wanted to be fair to parents (hint: Both can be achieved), then the courts would look at all the expenses and split them down the middle as a start, modifying costs based on custody after. Instead we get a lump sum judgement based on nothing more than gross pay. Hello wealth transfer! The more money they can transfer away from the higher earning parent, usually the man, the more matching federal funds the states get! It's honestly really that simple.
The whole system is a crock and yet people still feed the monster by getting married and having kids. On the flip side there's a lot of men who are learning from the examples being set by the state from what happened to their brothers, cousins, uncles, and fathers. Why do you think there's such a huge market for $7000 robot sex toys and foreign brides? If the system was even remotely fair there would be no need for mgtow and mras.
Maybe, but until the divorce and custody laws are brought into parity for both sexes, and women aren't the default victims, this is real to many people.
Well, that will happen about the same time as women being paid equal salaries as men for equal work and the glass ceiling no longer exists. Wake me when that happens.........
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Originally Posted by zz4guy
90% of the other threads are women whining about men
Ok then....tag..you're it...go ahead and create another thread about how unfair it is to be a man. Go ahead.......I'll wait
LibertyandJusticeforAll, I hear ur frustration. And I feel ur pain. I agree that divorce is not fair... It is hard and nothing prepares u for that process. However, there is life after divorce and a good one too. Marriage in an honorable institution, but sometimes it does not work out. U don't ban all marriage for that reason because some work out very well. I hope u r able to have an open mind toward marriage at some point in the future.
Maybe, but until the divorce and custody laws are brought into parity for both sexes, and women aren't the default victims, this is real to many people.
This is being done, though to slowly. Id like to see more fathers advocate groups pushing legislation for more fair CS laws.
If you have any sanity before you marry PREN UP I don't care if your making no money PREN UP!!! That any money you make is yours at the time of the divorce.
So you think the money you make in the course of a marriage is yours and yours alone? Good luck getting anyone to sign on to a sweet deal like that.
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