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So, a girl I see a lot at a restaurant I sometimes go to, well she always tries to talk to me. And usually, it's always a random way to start. Like last time, she told me she remembered a funny story with her cousin and my skull cap I was wearing at the time reminded her of it.
Course, I usually don't talk as much because I'm full at the time, sleepy, and slightly groggy because I usually have just gotten off work at the time. Still, should I make a move?
So, a girl I see a lot at a restaurant I sometimes go to, well she always tries to talk to me. And usually, it's always a random way to start. Like last time, she told me she remembered a funny story with her cousin and my skull cap I was wearing at the time reminded her of it.
Course, I usually don't talk as much because I'm full at the time, sleepy, and slightly groggy because I usually have just gotten off work at the time. Still, should I make a move?
Depends on what your "move" is. If you play it cool, it could work out.
This is what I would do, given I don't have much success asking women out in person, but I've done it a lot.
1. Just ask her for her phone number. Don't tell her why, just say "hey, what's your number". You'll find out REALLY quick if she's interested. If she starts spitting out the numbers or writes it down without hesitation, you're gold. If she asks "why?" or hesitates before responding, I wouldn't call her, and I'd take it as a sign of being uninterested.
2. You could toe the friend line and if she has more interest, she'll make it happen. Basically ask her to come hang out at a bar one night with you and some friends. Just say hey "Some buddies of mine are getting together for drinks later, why don't you come out with us?" This is very non-creepy and non-threatening, so if she does come out, you still won't know right away if there's interest, but at least you'll be spending time with her, and that's the key recipe for anything to develop if there's even potential.
Remember to just play it cool and don't overthink it. Worst case scenario is she says no and you find out really quick where she stands, and you can move on with your life as you already were.
The worse case scenario is that you ask her on a date and she says no. At this point, you have nothing to lose since you are half asleep when she talks to you anyway LOL (teasing).
Depends on what your "move" is. If you play it cool, it could work out.
This is what I would do, given I don't have much success asking women out in person, but I've done it a lot.
1. Just ask her for her phone number. Don't tell her why, just say "hey, what's your number". You'll find out REALLY quick if she's interested. If she starts spitting out the numbers or writes it down without hesitation, you're gold. If she asks "why?" or hesitates before responding, I wouldn't call her, and I'd take it as a sign of being uninterested.
2. You could toe the friend line and if she has more interest, she'll make it happen. Basically ask her to come hang out at a bar one night with you and some friends. Just say hey "Some buddies of mine are getting together for drinks later, why don't you come out with us?" This is very non-creepy and non-threatening, so if she does come out, you still won't know right away if there's interest, but at least you'll be spending time with her, and that's the key recipe for anything to develop if there's even potential.
Remember to just play it cool and don't overthink it. Worst case scenario is she says no and you find out really quick where she stands, and you can move on with your life as you already were.
That's my advice, take it or leave it.
This is the correct advice. You can see her interest level in you without actually asking her out. Use the advice this guy has given you.
So, a girl I see a lot at a restaurant I sometimes go to, well she always tries to talk to me. And usually, it's always a random way to start. Like last time, she told me she remembered a funny story with her cousin and my skull cap I was wearing at the time reminded her of it.
Course, I usually don't talk as much because I'm full at the time, sleepy, and slightly groggy because I usually have just gotten off work at the time. Still, should I make a move?
1) Bring up common interests.
2) Bring up events that have that common interest.
3) Invite to event.
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