What Is With All The Angry, Anti-Women Sentiment? (family, kids, divorce)
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Yeah, that's true these days, but it wasn't the case even a few short decades ago, whereas this resentment dates back to the beginning of times...
Science will take over reproduction. Our cerebral cortexes will continue to develop. In about a 200 years sex/gender issues won't even be an issue.
Studying all this deep seeded semi conscious stuff is interesting, but science is developing so rapidly it's rendering it useless. Not to mention each generation is much more tolerant than the last, by leaps and bounds.
What remains unclear is why, in this theory, men hate women but women don't hate men.
Oh, I'm sure women are frustrated, too, but the more sources of affection they find and the better off financially they are, the less they care whether they're in a relationship or not. Let's face it - most women aren't nymphos. That's why lack of enough sex is men's main complaint.
Lately it seems every other thread on here is filled with angry, often mysogynistic rants against women. These posts/threads reek of bitterness and discontentment. Why the need to blame an entire gender for the bad behavior or bad experiences with a few? I've heard that women are notorious for "man-bashing"(which is inexcusable as well) but all I see on here as of late is the opposite with thread topics of exhorting men to "never get married", plus the usual "women are superficial gold-diggers". Geez, don't you think it's getting a little old? I have personally had some very negative and hurtful experiences with men, but I would NEVER blame the male gender for my problems or hold any group or even any individual responsible for the foul acts of a few men. Has anyone else noticed the preponderance of these negative anti-women threads? What do you think?
Look at your own comments about "bitterness" and "miscontent." Note that you NEVER consider whether these men may actually have a point.
Personally, I'm a straight shooter and call a spade, a spade. Women don't like this because many of them are coddled by parents and society that they are wonderful little princesses. Well, they are not just as little boys aren't rock stars.
Despite being the most privileged group of women that the world has ever seen, with many government programs and societal forces giving them what they want, women will still complain and demand more. Men, meanwhile, are more likely to figure out that life sucks and you only get what you put into it and thus put down their heads and shovel the gravel.
Pointing this out to women, rather than being analyzed logically for valdity, instead is attacked by retorts reeking of logical fallacies, ad hominen ones especially, i.e. "you're bitter, gay, don't get laid, have a small penis, still live at home with mom, hate women, etc..."
I don't hate women. I LOVE women- it's why I put so much effort into learning how to attract them. I will NOT worship them however nor give into their "I am a princess" world view. To some, that means I am a mysogynist. Go figure.
I especially like to point out that a woman's prime attractors for a man are her fertilility, beauty, and youth- women HATE this and will scream to the rafters that their money/education/job make them just as worthy a mate as these qualities make a man a worthy mate even though men only see these qualities as merely bonus points. Thus when a 40 year old woman, after 100 penises and two kids, possible also divorced, gets upset that she can't find a "good man," doesn't want to hear that the "good man" is avoiding her aged, sagging bottom and those kids that no other man wants to raise. Much easier to attack men and messengers like me.
Many many men have been wounded deeply in divorce even if they have done no wrong. Heck, the woman may have cheated, been abusive, etc... and will still get the house, money, alimony, and kids. This makes men bitter and rightly so. Men like myself, seeing (but fortunately not experiencing) such slaughters handed down by the courts, logically refuse to marry. This drives women nuts since ultimately most women want to be brides (note I said brides, not wives) and once again lash out at men and speakers of the truth.
Men see how women act when empowered: legal theft via the courts and taxation, false rape charges, legally kidnapping our children, taking jobs and promotions from men even if the man is more qualified (gotta fill those quotas), etc...
Men have become disgusted at this greed and abuse. How are we to react? With love? Hardly.
Oh, I'm sure women are frustrated, too, but the more sources of affection they find and the better off financially they are, the less they care whether they're in a relationship or not. Let's face it - most women aren't nymphos. That's why lack of enough sex is men's main complaint.
Does this mean you agree with the theory of imbalance, that the typical man is more angry with women at-large, than vice-versa?
I do not feel strongly one way or the other, but I feel that other posters' assertions are inadequate when they assume that the feelings must be equal and bilateral.
If men were the ones getting free meals and gifts darn near four times a week, I seriously doubt WE would care what women said about us. Stop complaining about being bashed, and enjoy the free stuff stupid a** men give you.
You're worst than a Black welfare recipent who complains about the government and how racist it is.
Well, that was intelligent. Not racist at all. Pot....kettle....BLACK.
They're not bashing ME. And my assessment of your kind has nothing to do with whether or not I enjoy the "free stuff". My hunny LOVES spending his money on me. No scud missile to his head, no blackmail, no victimization needed. And I do enjoy it, thoroughly, thank you very much.
Look at your own comments about "bitterness" and "miscontent." Note that you NEVER consider whether these men may actually have a point.
Personally, I'm a straight shooter and call a spade, a spade. Women don't like this because many of them are coddled by parents and society that they are wonderful little princesses. Well, they are not just as little boys aren't rock stars.
Despite being the most privileged group of women that the world has ever seen, with many government programs and societal forces giving them what they want, women will still complain and demand more. Men, meanwhile, are more likely to figure out that life sucks and you only get what you put into it and thus put down their heads and shovel the gravel.
Pointing this out to women, rather than being analyzed logically for valdity, instead is attacked by retorts reeking of logical fallacies, ad hominen ones especially, i.e. "you're bitter, gay, don't get laid, have a small penis, still live at home with mom, hate women, etc..."
I don't hate women. I LOVE women- it's why I put so much effort into learning how to attract them. I will NOT worship them however nor give into their "I am a princess" world view. To some, that means I am a mysogynist. Go figure.
I especially like to point out that a woman's prime attractors for a man are her fertilility, beauty, and youth- women HATE this and will scream to the rafters that their money/education/job make them just as worthy a mate as these qualities make a man a worthy mate even though men only see these qualities as merely bonus points. Thus when a 40 year old woman, after 100 penises and two kids, possible also divorced, gets upset that she can't find a "good man," doesn't want to hear that the "good man" is avoiding her aged, sagging bottom and those kids that no other man wants to raise. Much easier to attack men and messengers like me.
Many many men have been wounded deeply in divorce even if they have done no wrong. Heck, the woman may have cheated, been abusive, etc... and will still get the house, money, alimony, and kids. This makes men bitter and rightly so. Men like myself, seeing (but fortunately not experiencing) such slaughters handed down by the courts, logically refuse to marry. This drives women nuts since ultimately most women want to be brides (note I said brides, not wives) and once again lash out at men and speakers of the truth.
Men see how women act when empowered: legal theft via the courts and taxation, false rape charges, legally kidnapping our children, taking jobs and promotions from men even if the man is more qualified (gotta fill those quotas), etc...
Men have become disgusted at this greed and abuse. How are we to react? With love? Hardly.
Look at your own comments about "bitterness" and "miscontent." Note that you NEVER consider whether these men may actually have a point.
Personally, I'm a straight shooter and call a spade, a spade. Women don't like this because many of them are coddled by parents and society that they are wonderful little princesses. Well, they are not just as little boys aren't rock stars.
Despite being the most privileged group of women that the world has ever seen, with many government programs and societal forces giving them what they want, women will still complain and demand more. Men, meanwhile, are more likely to figure out that life sucks and you only get what you put into it and thus put down their heads and shovel the gravel.
Pointing this out to women, rather than being analyzed logically for valdity, instead is attacked by retorts reeking of logical fallacies, ad hominen ones especially, i.e. "you're bitter, gay, don't get laid, have a small penis, still live at home with mom, hate women, etc..."
I don't hate women. I LOVE women- it's why I put so much effort into learning how to attract them. I will NOT worship them however nor give into their "I am a princess" world view. To some, that means I am a mysogynist. Go figure.
I especially like to point out that a woman's prime attractors for a man are her fertilility, beauty, and youth- women HATE this and will scream to the rafters that their money/education/job make them just as worthy a mate as these qualities make a man a worthy mate even though men only see these qualities as merely bonus points. Thus when a 40 year old woman, after 100 penises and two kids, possible also divorced, gets upset that she can't find a "good man," doesn't want to hear that the "good man" is avoiding her aged, sagging bottom and those kids that no other man wants to raise. Much easier to attack men and messengers like me.
Many many men have been wounded deeply in divorce even if they have done no wrong. Heck, the woman may have cheated, been abusive, etc... and will still get the house, money, alimony, and kids. This makes men bitter and rightly so. Men like myself, seeing (but fortunately not experiencing) such slaughters handed down by the courts, logically refuse to marry. This drives women nuts since ultimately most women want to be brides (note I said brides, not wives) and once again lash out at men and speakers of the truth.
Men see how women act when empowered: legal theft via the courts and taxation, false rape charges, legally kidnapping our children, taking jobs and promotions from men even if the man is more qualified (gotta fill those quotas), etc...
Men have become disgusted at this greed and abuse. How are we to react? With love? Hardly.
Yeah, but it's not nice to be so bitter. I have been physically abused by a woman [ex girlfriend], and add emotional abuse to it as well where I was demeaned beyond crazy. To this day I have that scar above my eye where I was knocked out cold. I was young, and my selecting skills in women were appalling. I've had another girlfriend who had stolen from me a lot of money. I trusted her too soon. I learned from that bad terrible experience and moved on with life.
I understand that people go through shiit experiences, but one gotta keep the chin up and look on the bright side of life. I know a friend who was once falsely accused of rape. He had reached the worst point in his life and at one point he was contemplating suicide. He was a right mess, and it took him a long time to get over that traumatic experience. If you speak to him now, he has a permanent smile on his face and is happy. But the most important thing is he has learned who to associate with it, and who to avoid. And live his life accordingly.
We all meet terrible people. Everyone does. Such is life.
With easy divorce, 40 year old men now easily enter this market and create more angry bitter 40 year old women.
1. 70% of divorces are initiated by WOMEN.
2. Divorce is hardly easy for most men: the courts are more likely to take assets and future income from him to give to her, rather than the other way around. Then there are the 90-95% of custody cases are decided in a woman's favor.
It's the other way around: women are divorcing men at a 2 to 1 ratio, often for silly reasons like she's bored or "I love you but I'm not *in* love with you." That latter is such a crock- if you love someone, how can you steal their money, home, future income, and kids? You visit that on someone you HATE. If she truly loved him but wanted to move on, she would leave the marriage and give him everything.
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