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Old 02-05-2010, 11:29 AM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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Originally Posted by lisa4eyes View Post
What if he drugged you, or if there was more than one of them? You might be crazy, but if you're drugged, or out numbered...

I'd love to offer an answer but I don't live my life based on "what ifs". I live day to day cognizent of my surroundings and dealings with people. I don't see how someone could drug me, get me in private (I weight 230 pounds) and rape me. Maybe I would be flattered if they could accomplish all that, it means somebody loves me??

I am a happy, well-adjusted 50 year old guy who dwells on other things, like my 2 teenaged boys, wife, 2 kitties, my lawn tractor, spring training's approach and cold, refreshing Swithwick's Ale.

Being raped is about as likely as having a sex-change. Sorry.

 
Old 02-05-2010, 11:34 AM
 
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No. I would probably not report it. And yes I would feel like taking a life. Either my own or that of the attacker. Maybe both.

Hi J'aimeDesVilles,


That's lame. I'd never consider taking my own life over that.
 
Old 02-05-2010, 11:35 AM
 
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I'd love to offer an answer but I don't live my life based on "what ifs". I live day to day cognizent of my surroundings and dealings with people. I don't see how someone could drug me, get me in private (I weight 230 pounds) and rape me. Maybe I would be flattered if they could accomplish all that, it means somebody loves me??

I am a happy, well-adjusted 50 year old guy who dwells on other things, like my 2 teenaged boys, wife, 2 kitties, my lawn tractor, spring training's approach and cold, refreshing Swithwick's Ale.

Being raped is about as likely as having a sex-change. Sorry.
Congrats, but it was a hypothetical question. Not a means to plan for the worst, but you know, like for fun?
 
Old 02-05-2010, 11:36 AM
 
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All the pigeon chested macho stuff is all well and good, but this was the question.



If you've been drugged, or slugged from behind, barely conscious, and can barely move, never mind fight, and you have some guy standing over you with a gun, or a knife, then what are you going to do?

Yes, afterward, you'll be understandably angry, and upset, and look for revenge.
but, for the purposes of the question, all you have to do is pray it's quick !!

It's never happened to me personally, but i am familiar with victims of rape, both male and female, who mostly describe much the same thing. A "rabbit in the headlights" paralysis.

it's all too easy to look at it in the cold light of day and be all like "yeah ? if any dude tried it, I'd".........................

I'm afraid it's not always that easy.
You don't let yourself get into a situation like that. In any case, I look like a guy you don't want to mess with. If you have a spring in your step and some stamina they usually move on to another victim? Why take the chance?
 
Old 02-05-2010, 11:37 AM
 
Location: MichOhioigan
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Hi J'aimeDesVilles,


That's lame. I'd never consider taking my own life over that.
We all have our own opinions gwynedd. That's why forums like C-D exist.
 
Old 02-05-2010, 11:40 AM
 
Location: Cary, NC
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Congrats, but it was a hypothetical question. Not a means to plan for the worst, but you know, like for fun?
Rape for fun? I am truly confused.

Okay, I would not report it. There's the answer I should have started with.

I would handle it in-house.

The End
 
Old 02-05-2010, 11:44 AM
 
Location: Jacksonville, FL (Northside)
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No because I'd hunt him down and kill him. If somebody is going to rape me, they better finish it up with killing me.

Even the thought of that just made me cranky...back to bed for me.
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I'm not sure. I would probably figure out a way to kill him, or have him killed, or go down trying. I have an ego and I am not sure what emotions that it would start firing off at me, but no, my plan would not include the authorities.
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No need to report it - the perp is going down, in a most painful way too.

Co-sign all 3. I wouldn't let that slide, AT ALL.
 
Old 02-05-2010, 11:44 AM
 
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I would not report it.

I think it's pretty resounding in here that most men would not report it.
 
Old 02-05-2010, 11:44 AM
 
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Rape for fun? I am truly confused.

Okay, I would not report it. There's the answer I should have started with.

I would handle it in-house.

The End
Right, you mean you would keep it quiet and become emotionally disturbed and possibly physically scarred and diseased. That is the best way to handle it?
 
Old 02-05-2010, 11:45 AM
 
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I would not report it.

I think it's pretty resounding in here that most men would not report it.
The real men anyway!LOL........
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