Are you the Breaker-upper or Breaker-ee? (boyfriends, marriage, man, love)

[Kishka]

(Breaker-upee?)

Are you always the one to break-up in a relationship?

Whichever it is for you, do you think it's a good or bad thing?

I am always the one to break up, I move on if things aren't right. At 36 yo I can't honestly say that's a GOOD thing. I used to think so, but now, not so sure...

[Raena77]

I can go either way...it can be me doing it ...or him.

[yankeegirl313]

Originally Posted by Kishka

I am always the one to break up, I move on if things aren't right. At 36 yo I can't honestly say that's a GOOD thing. I used to think so, but now, not so sure...

Well, this is just about the way the story goes...if your not happy, move on. If he is not happy, he can move on.

[PassTheChocolate]

I have only had one man break up with me. I was a wreck....for 10 days.

The only bad thing about it would be that it took too long to do it in most cases.

[TheBeagleLady]

Both, but most recently the breaker-ee.

[KickAssArmyChick]

Up until my marriage I broke up with 4 out of 5 boyfriends...

[TKramar]

Originally Posted by Kishka

(Breaker-upee?)

Are you always the one to break-up in a relationship?

Whichever it is for you, do you think it's a good or bad thing?

I am always the one to break up, I move on if things aren't right. At 36 yo I can't honestly say that's a GOOD thing. I used to think so, but now, not so sure...

Always been her. She starts them, she ends them.

[bobman]

A bit of a mix, really.
I've been dumped, and been the dumper.

Can't say there's a pattern

[SookieStackhouse]

I've been dumped once, it was no fun.

[sweetheart1311]

I've only been dumped once, but the guy did me a favor. Unfortunately, I can't leave a man as long as I love him, no matter how unhappy I am with him. That explains why I didn't leave him before he left me.

Other than that relationship, I was always the one who broke up with men. Just fell out of love.