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Old 02-08-2010, 03:24 PM
 
Location: Sugarland
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I don't believe that's accurate. Alot of the porn industry is run by women but from everything I've heard the porn market for women is just about zero. In fact I remember seeing a conversation about porn magazines on some tv show and they said that the magazine Playgirl is almost exclusively purchased by gay men and so is everything else that features nude males. Maybe some of the women on the forum could share their thoughts but it's my opinion that women in general don't find porn to be interesting at all.
No, I don't watch that watered down girlie stuff. I'm not even sure what kind of porn would be geared towards women. Maybe that softcore late night Skinemax crap? That's what I started off watching many years ago before I moved on to harder stuff, so I kind of think of that as "gateway porn."

But, back to the issue at hand...

 
Old 02-08-2010, 03:26 PM
 
Location: Amarillo, Tx
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So its ok for women to think about some dude at work while shes rubbing one out or doing her husband but men are pigs for lookin a strangers? Hmmmmm.
 
Old 02-08-2010, 03:28 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Hubby to wifey~"Honey I forbid you from ever pleasuring yourself, don't dare let me find out you have a special dresser drawer buddy, besides my **** is all you need"
Bwhahahahaha!
 
Old 02-08-2010, 03:31 PM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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Can you imagine how upset a wife would be if she was going through her husband's storage area trying to find something and found one of those sex robots?
 
Old 02-08-2010, 03:33 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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Usually with the porn conflict, it makes sense to take Dan Savage's advice: you pretend like he doesn't look at porn, and he pretends like he doesn't look at porn. From what the OP has said about their sex life, and the fact that he knows it bothers her but he couldn't be bothered to used the Private Browsing function or delete the history on her computer shows that there's more going on than just the porn.

Last edited by fleetiebelle; 02-08-2010 at 03:43 PM..
 
Old 02-08-2010, 03:37 PM
 
Location: Cobb County, Georgia
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Hubby came home from work and acted all lovey dovey toward me. I was grouting the bathroom tile and told him I would like to be left alone. He kept pushing me to find out why I'm so "grouchy" and I told him it was because of the youtube videos he was watching. He said "so what" and then left the house.

I'll update everyone later tonight.

And NC~Mom, I'm that one wife that has done EVERYTHING my husband has wanted to try in the bedroom. I try everything 3 times before I make up my mind if I don't like it or not, so I'm very open to his needs. Only thing I cant do often is BJ's because I have TMJ and my jaw has literally locked down on his you know what.

I haven't read the other 10 pages so forgive me if I say that same thing as someone else has said but I wouldn't look at him watching porn as a reflection of him no wanting to have sex with you or you not doing things that he likes in the bedroom. It's just a different act, it doesn't have any reflection on who you are or what ya'll have together.Before ya'll got together did he look at porn or images of naked women? If it bothers you than ya'll should discuss it, I just wouldn't let it create an argument or a wedge in the relationship.
 
Old 02-08-2010, 03:40 PM
 
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LOL this is getting nuts.

She has every right in the world to be upset with him looking at ****.

He has every right in the world to look at ****.

What can be negotiated from there? To me: 1) This relationship doesn't sound happy or healthy. 2) She could be using any issue in the world to end it.
 
Old 02-08-2010, 03:51 PM
 
Location: Southern NC
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So, it makes it OK for them to go behind their wives back, to get that "not so boring" feeling, or extra charge?

Uh yeah...if he's pleasuring himself, what's the problem?
And, treating your men like children will just give them cause to "sneak" around to do something that is perfectly normal.
 
Old 02-08-2010, 03:51 PM
 
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I agree with others...this has been blown totally out of proportion...she makes porn sound like a crime...I think the underlying issue is that she isnt getting sex frequently enough, and they both need to figure out why he isnt seeking to please her more often, or why her sex drive is comparably hyperactive
 
Old 02-08-2010, 03:57 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Uh yeah...if he's pleasuring himself, what's the problem?
And, treating your men like children will just give them cause to "sneak" around to do something that is perfectly normal.
Whats the problem?
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