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Old 02-08-2010, 07:28 PM
 
Location: Pa
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This might be the saddest post I've read on this forum.
I second this..I have seen death up close..and life is too short to be totally shallow. I have dated hot men and mediocre men. However as for me if you are hot with no personality then you are not for me. Some ok men can be very loving and with a great sense of humor.
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Old 02-08-2010, 07:30 PM
 
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We all know that attraction is about the brain, right?

I really feel sorry for people that haven't worked that out.

People should all go watch Shrek immediately!
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Old 02-08-2010, 07:31 PM
 
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Be alone for the rest of my life, attraction is a nice feeling, being without that in a relationship would be torture. I just realized that the thread title said, "Physically," ... yea, I probably could, as long as there was something else that kept me intriqued and attracted. I do have things that just aren't something I could look over and that's stuff like sloppiness or something like that.
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Old 02-08-2010, 07:43 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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Nope, I have no use for a ugly woman
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Old 02-08-2010, 07:46 PM
 
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Nope, I have no use for a ugly woman
"An" ugly woman. Some women may not be interested in your bad grammar, especially when you are saying those types of things. LOL Just messing.
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Old 02-08-2010, 08:43 PM
 
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That's what friendships are for -

I wouldn't settle for a relationship without physical/sexual attraction.
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Old 02-08-2010, 08:48 PM
 
Location: DC
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No, I'd rather be happily single than with someone who I have no attraction to. There's a difference between being alone and being lonely.
Ditto. Not to mention that I don't think it's very fair to the other person that they were just "settled for". I wouldn't want someone to just settle for me.
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Old 02-08-2010, 08:50 PM
 
Location: Pa
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We all know that attraction is about the brain, right?

I really feel sorry for people that haven't worked that out.

People should all go watch Shrek immediately!
And with that sexy Scottish accent.
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Old 02-08-2010, 08:55 PM
 
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And with that sexy Scottish accent.

EXACTLY!!!

And on that note I can think of tonnes of what I would consider very unattractive people who have hooked up with someone who also isn't bowled over by their physical features so much, but whenever they hear them speak they go weak at the knees.

Attraction is a very interesting thing actually.

Beauty really is in the eye of the beholder AND we are all attracted to different things at different times in our lives.
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Old 02-08-2010, 09:02 PM
 
Location: NYC
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If I were attracted to someone in every way except the physical, I'd probably pass him by. Of course, a few years later I'd regret it and re-evaluate my "standards." My hats off to people who learned to rank the physical attraction far down on the scale early on.
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