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Old 02-08-2010, 06:26 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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At this point in my life there isn't really any good reason to settle for somebody I'm not attracted to.
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Old 02-08-2010, 06:28 PM
 
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So I would die alone because I could never find anybody attractive enough for me? LOL I'd deserve to be lonely then.
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Old 02-08-2010, 06:30 PM
 
Location: NYC
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Porn has been the only sexual reality I've ever known, and although I am alone, I don't feel lonely enough to settle for someone I am less attracted to than the models. It may be a shallow and 2-demensional experience, but at least it is free of the bossiness and baggage that come with a flesh-and-blood woman. Pass the Kleenex, please, not the Whitman's.
This might be the saddest post I've read on this forum.
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Old 02-08-2010, 06:43 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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The idea of being alone for the best of my life is very unnerving and to be honest if my choices are being with someone I like but am not physically attracted to vs. being alone, I'd rather have the companionship. But who knows? The assumption is that if you aren't attracted to the person, the sex is lousy, but you might be surprised. Beside, in the dark, you can't see what someone looks like anyway.
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Old 02-08-2010, 06:46 PM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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The idea of being alone for the best of my life is very unnerving and to be honest if my choices are being with someone I like but am not physically attracted to vs. being alone, I'd rather have the companionship. But who knows? The assumption is that if you aren't attracted to the person, the sex is lousy, but you might be surprised. Beside, in the dark, you can't see what someone looks like anyway.
No but you can feel them , or not, as the case may be.

<wondering if the "bic lighter" thread should be resurrected>
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Old 02-08-2010, 06:53 PM
 
Location: in my imagination
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Id rather remain single and there is a difference between that and being alone.
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Old 02-08-2010, 07:18 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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Beside, in the dark, you can't see what someone looks like anyway.
He-he, lucky you! I don't like it in the dark. And even in the dark you touch, feel, smell... It ain't workin'.
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Old 02-08-2010, 07:21 PM
 
Location: Incognito
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I would rather live with Palmira for the rest of my life. I must be attracted to my partner, I need to see her butt jiggle when I get home.
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Old 02-08-2010, 07:22 PM
 
Location: Colorado Springs, CO
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Simple question - Answer is NO. I could not "settle" for someone I didn't find attractive. Frankly, I wouldn't even date someone I wasn't attracted to.
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Old 02-08-2010, 07:24 PM
 
Location: Pa
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If I wanted to settle for someone I wasn't attracted to I would have stayed with my last boyfriend - 70+ pounds overweight, lousy sex, but he would have married me (so he said after I broke up w him). No thanks. I'd rather be alone.
Haha nice.
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