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Old 02-09-2010, 11:21 AM
 
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Hi am not sure about that
If you have an adverse reaction to the drug will he be willing to take you to the hospital? How about if he has an adverse reaction?

Are you going to be able to function at school or work later?

Also, I think that stuff takes a while to wear off. Are you living at home with parents? What are they going to say when you're gone all night?
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Old 02-09-2010, 11:22 AM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Hi

I have met this wonderful guy who loves me to bits...

He is a nice person but he said something that really threw me the other day.

He asked me if I would do ectasy with him!

I am not sure how to take it...

I guess at least he is not hiding it from me and wants to share the experience with me...

I know its a love drug maybe he wants to have those loving feelings with me? as it also amplifies sensations when one touches or caresses another particulary during sex

who knows can anyone help me? What should I do?

many thanks

Where are your personal values and morals?

And if you have any, are they so easily comprimised and up for revision every time you are dating someone you are afraid of losing?

I'm sorry, you need to give these questions some SERIOUS consideration and grow up.
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Old 02-09-2010, 11:27 AM
 
Location: SW MO
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Perhaps you can tell us your opinion of whether or not ecstasy is addictive.
Ecstacy was not prominent during my time. I left law enforcement over 20 years ago. However, even if a drug is not physically addictive and isn't replacing substances the body would otherwise manufacture naturally, it can be psychologically addictive. The best rule of thumb is to avoid them all.
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Old 02-09-2010, 11:38 AM
 
Location: East Valley, AZ
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Drugs are my absolute #1 turn off. I've never touched the stuff, not even weed. Anyone who even thinks about using them and trying to date me will be out the door, no if's and's or but's.

With that being said, no. You should not do the drug with your "friend". In fact, tell him where he can stick useless existance.
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Old 02-09-2010, 11:54 AM
 
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Where are your personal values and morals?

And if you have any, are they so easily comprimised and up for revision every time you are dating someone you are afraid of losing?

I'm sorry, you need to give these questions some SERIOUS consideration and grow up.

Exactly.
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Old 02-09-2010, 11:57 AM
 
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Drugs are my absolute #1 turn off. I've never touched the stuff, not even weed. Anyone who even thinks about using them and trying to date me will be out the door, no if's and's or but's.

With that being said, no. You should not do the drug with your "friend". In fact, tell him where he can stick useless existance.
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Old 02-09-2010, 12:04 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Where are your personal values and morals?

And if you have any, are they so easily comprimised and up for revision every time you are dating someone you are afraid of losing?

I'm sorry, you need to give these questions some SERIOUS consideration and grow up.
Yeah, I think (and hope) we're dealing with some youngsters here.

Every single drug out there has wound up causing some kind of bad thing to happen and show up on my doorstep. So there are no 'safe' drugs or truly 'safe' environments, no matter what anyone tells you.
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Old 02-09-2010, 12:10 PM
 
Location: North Carolina
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I know someone who died from X. That stuff is cut with all kinds of crap...heroin, morphine, meth, you name it.

And if he happens to know someone who has pure MDMA and not just picking up a few Disco Biscuits at some club chances are he's deep into the drug scene. Not good.
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Old 02-09-2010, 12:12 PM
 
Location: NYC
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If you are both in your 20s and its something he does once in a blue moon when he comes across a friend in a nightclub with it, I'd say it isn't a big deal. Do it or don't, let that decision be yours and yours alone.

If he does it every weekend (or more) and/or "needs" it to have a good time, I'd be leery.

Yes, its a addictive and could be dangerous... but none of us would ever do anything if we let that stop us
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Old 02-09-2010, 12:15 PM
 
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Be aware that XTC may officially be called the love drug because of the MDMA (which why it has been used in Psychiatric Hospitals in the 40's and 50's) but the XTC circulating now has amphetamines and other chemicals in iit which can be VERY dangerous! Does your boyfriend take other drugs also? Be aware that drugs when used on a regular base can change someone's personality in a huge way (and not in a positive way).
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