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Old 02-12-2010, 12:09 PM
 
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Usually when I am out I have a stern, focused look on my face and for some reason men tend think I'm mad. So, I have been working on trying to be more pleasant looking and smile when I make eye contact with someone. Well, that got me in all kinds of drama!!

I'm at the grocery store and I pass by this man. I am looking around the aisle and we make eye contact. I smile and we say hello. Ok, so I move on. Then I hear "Miss...Miss"..I turn around and he asks me do I know where kabob sticks are . I say no and politely turn away. He proceeds to try to talk to me, ask my name, if I'm married, now old am I, I look like I'm from CA, yada yada. He asked for my number and I said "I told you, I'm married" he says "Well, I'll give you my number" I ask "How would you feel if I was your wife and another man was giving me his number?" He just grins and THEN hugs me! We are in the friggin check out line (he has followed me throughout the store). My hands are full of fruit and this jerk thinks he can touch me!! I pull back and say "Whoa, you don't know me like that!" He keeps grinning and talking.

At this point, I know I have a psycho on my hands. Well, the clerk rings our stuff up together by mistake because this guy is so close behind me I guess she assumed we were together. Now I have to wait for her to void the items. This guy is still asking questions, I'm ignoring him.

He follows me all the way out to my car asking where do I live, etc. I get in the car and drive off. So, no more Mrs. Nice....I'm going back to b*tch mode because some men just handle nice!
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Old 02-12-2010, 12:11 PM
 
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Who is this guy, I'll kick his ass! Haha, yeah you had a stage 5 clinger.
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Old 02-12-2010, 12:14 PM
 
Location: DC
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Wow, that's really bad. I've gotten unwanted attention by just trying to be nice, but never anything that intense. Even the clinger I had wasn't quite that bad (he at least waited until we'd met a few times before getting clingy).
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Old 02-12-2010, 12:14 PM
 
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Usually when I am out I have a stern, focused look on my face and for some reason men tend think I'm mad. So, I have been working on trying to be more pleasant looking and smile when I make eye contact with someone. Well, that got me in all kinds of drama!!

I'm at the grocery story and I pass by this man. I am looking around the aisle and we make eye contact. I smile and we say hello. Ok, so I move on. Then I hear "Miss...Miss"..I turn around and he asks me do I know where kabob sticks are . I say no and politely turn away. He proceeds to try to talk to me, ask my name, if I'm married, now old am I, I look like I'm from CA, yada yada. He asked for my number and I said "I told you, I'm married" he says "Well, I'll give you my number" I ask "How would you feel if I was your wife and another man was giving me his number?" He just grins and THEN hugs me! We are in the friggin check out line (he has followed me throughout the store). My hands are full of fruit and this jerk thinks he can touch me!! I pull back and say "Whoa, you don't know me like that!" He keeps grinning and talking.


At this point, I know I have a psycho on my hands. Well, the clerk rings our stuff up together by mistake because this guy is so close behind me I guess she assumed we were together. Now I have to wait for her to void the items. This guy is still asking questions, I'm ignoring him.

He follows me all the way out to my car asking where do I live, etc. I get in the car and drive off. So, no more Mrs. Nice....I'm going back to b*tch mode because some men just handle nice!
Sorry I know this was annoying but I couldn't help but giggle, but just a little lol! That must be one powerful smile you have there, use it for powers of good, with great power comes great responsibility!
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Old 02-12-2010, 12:15 PM
 
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Who is this guy, I'll kick his ass! Haha, yeah you had a stage 5 clinger.
Really, I mean the guy got a little too "chummy" for me...started to freak me out!
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Old 02-12-2010, 12:16 PM
 
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Old 02-12-2010, 12:17 PM
 
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Really, I mean the guy got a little too "chummy" for me...started to freak me out!
Well he did try to hug your "fruit".
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Old 02-12-2010, 12:19 PM
 
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Well he did try to hug your "fruit".
LOL....You are such a perv!

I won't get into all the things he said but they were becoming very inappropriate.
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Old 02-12-2010, 12:22 PM
 
Location: Tempe, AZ
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Usually when I am out I have a stern, focused look on my face and for some reason men tend think I'm mad. So, I have been working on trying to be more pleasant looking and smile when I make eye contact with someone. Well, that got me in all kinds of drama!!

I'm at the grocery store and I pass by this man. I am looking around the aisle and we make eye contact. I smile and we say hello. Ok, so I move on. Then I hear "Miss...Miss"..I turn around and he asks me do I know where kabob sticks are . I say no and politely turn away. He proceeds to try to talk to me, ask my name, if I'm married, now old am I, I look like I'm from CA, yada yada. He asked for my number and I said "I told you, I'm married" he says "Well, I'll give you my number" I ask "How would you feel if I was your wife and another man was giving me his number?" He just grins and THEN hugs me! We are in the friggin check out line (he has followed me throughout the store). My hands are full of fruit and this jerk thinks he can touch me!! I pull back and say "Whoa, you don't know me like that!" He keeps grinning and talking.

At this point, I know I have a psycho on my hands. Well, the clerk rings our stuff up together by mistake because this guy is so close behind me I guess she assumed we were together. Now I have to wait for her to void the items. This guy is still asking questions, I'm ignoring him.

He follows me all the way out to my car asking where do I live, etc. I get in the car and drive off. So, no more Mrs. Nice....I'm going back to b*tch mode because some men just handle nice!
Oh no!! And I think we can just copy-paste this for anyone who wonders what the definition of creepy is.

Last edited by typhoidmary; 02-12-2010 at 12:26 PM.. Reason: typo
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Old 02-12-2010, 12:22 PM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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He sounds mentally ill. Not that that excuses his behavior, though.

Dudes like this are pretty much why I have b!t(hface when out in public.

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