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Old 05-19-2011, 09:21 AM
 
Location: Way up high
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I believe it can happen..But for me, there's got to be other chemistry going on besides just good sex..I mean if you can't have a conversation with me, then you're out..

 
Old 06-02-2011, 09:31 PM
 
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Default Did you ever fall in love because of great sex?

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YEs u can as I have before, and I also liked his personality which made me fall more in love w/him.

Are you still together? If not; how long did it last?

Thanks for your feedback.
 
Old 06-02-2011, 09:32 PM
 
Location: Tampa (by way of Omaha)
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Only beta males fall in love over sex.
 
Old 06-02-2011, 09:37 PM
 
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Question Did you ever fall in love because of great sex?

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Yes.


Happens in a lot of different ways. And that's just one of the ways it can happen.
Well, I know for us women that it is harder to differentiate because we equate sex for love since we have sex with an emotional bond and men can have sex with no emotional bond. That is what my lover and I are trying to sort through. I have feelings for him that I have never had for anyone else. He is really coming out of his shell (Cancer/Crab horoscope sign) and I know he is in love with me but he questions me because of this 'girl dynamic.' It is true that women can confuse the good sex for love so it is something to walk slowly in until you know. I have had sexual encounters with men before and never had feelings, so I think this is real and the fact it has been going on for close to two years now. Any thoughts? Has it happened to you?
 
Old 06-02-2011, 09:39 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Hmmm can be lust or actual love later....all kinds of crazy circumstances....
 
Old 06-02-2011, 09:40 PM
 
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Default Did you ever fall in love because of great sex?

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Fall in love over great sex, no. Become addicted to someone over great sex, yes. Dangerous stuff.
What is your definition of the difference between love and addiction? Have you ever fallen in love with someone you had great sex with? You say dangerous stuff. Can you expound? Thank you for your feedback.
 
Old 06-02-2011, 09:42 PM
 
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What is your definition of the difference between love and addiction? Have you ever fallen in love with someone you had great sex with? You say dangerous stuff. Can you expound? Thank you for your feedback.
You revived an ancient thread. Why don't you start a new one of your own?
 
Old 06-02-2011, 10:05 PM
 
Location: Atlantis
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Never fell in love because of great sex. But I fell in love once because of mind blowing, porn induced, totally passionate and phenomenal sex.

Only to find out a year and a half into the experience that I did not really like her as a person and I think she felt the same way, but the sex kept things together and it the F-fest kept evolving into different scenarios and levels of intensity until I think we were both spiritually, emotionally and physically exhausted from the entire thing and grew apart.

I'll never forget months after it ended we were on the phone talking about her new boyfriend who was a complete clown who at the age of 34 still lived at his parents house and didn't know what to do with her cl*t and I made a comment that I could get her off harder, longer and better than any other guy, and she got frustrated and said "there is more to a relationship than just sex" and I was LMAO. At the time I met her she must have been going through some kind of phase - or in the end it was just biochemistry, pheromones, etc clicking when the right two people meet and it is commonly misunderstood in our society as "love" when it is really just lust.
 
Old 08-07-2013, 03:14 AM
 
Location: Windsor, Ontario, Canada
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Old 08-07-2013, 05:01 AM
 
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Lmao!
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