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Old 12-20-2011, 11:53 PM
 
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i have a question my friend boyfriend has a deformed hand and he wants to be trucker will he be able to get his commercial driver license
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Old 12-21-2011, 12:07 AM
 
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i have a question my friend boyfriend has a deformed hand and he wants to be trucker will he be able to get his commercial driver license
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Old 12-21-2011, 12:20 AM
 
Location: Hilo, HI
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Crazy that I thought deformed hand before I even read this. A deformed hand isn't a big deal to me. I actually had a crush on and asked out a guy that I danced with on a cruise who had a deformed hand. He is now in married to a really nice, pretty woman.

So to me, not a problem.
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Old 01-18-2014, 11:42 AM
 
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Hay people I was born with a deformed left arm and two fingers. I hid my arm all tru school days and I seriously regret it. Im 25 now and I still don't have much confidence. I've shown my hand on and off the past 7 years and still trying. On top of all this, at age 6 I was bounced around group homes and foster homes till I was 18. I've felt very alone most my life so thank you all for sharing your story. It feels good to know there's people that understand my struggle :-)
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Old 01-18-2014, 11:48 AM
 
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I dated a girl when I was younger that was wheel chair bound (Crushed legs from a car accident). It was never intimate and I'm actually not sure if it could of been (Never had that discussion). She was cute and curvy and had a smile that killed and had no problems finding men that were into her. Apparently there are all sorts of people out there that don't care about that sort of thing.
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Old 01-23-2014, 10:54 AM
 
Location: SoCal
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I was born with one deformed hand, otherwise normal, attractive, job, nice car, etc etc, How much of a factor is this for you sexually speaking??
Honestly, I don't think that it will be that much of a factor for me, just as long (no offense) that your hand doesn't freak me out and just as long as you are a female (I am not into dating males, at least not yet; LOL! ).

No offense for asking, but is your hand deformity similar to what Kaiser Wilhelm II had?
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Old 01-23-2014, 10:59 AM
 
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If it was a One Night Stand maybe it would bother me because everything is just about sex and touching each other.

In a relationship I wouldn't mind at all. If I love someone I love the person the way he is. If my boyfriend had an accident now and would loose his right arm, I would still love him and be attracted to him.
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Old 01-23-2014, 11:06 AM
 
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Physical touch is REALLY important to me, but one hand would be enough.
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Old 01-23-2014, 11:15 AM
 
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This thread is almost FOUR years old people.
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Old 01-23-2014, 11:17 AM
 
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I was born with one deformed hand, otherwise normal, attractive, job, nice car, etc etc, How much of a factor is this for you sexually speaking??
I don't think it's a factor for most people.

Things like face and height are more important.

Women would pick a guy who was handsome and tall with an amputated arm over a guy who was less physically attractive I would say 90% of the time.

The exception would be if that woman was active and really wanted a guy who could do everything with her. But even then.

Ironic, aint it?
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