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I feel like this is the proverbial foot-in-the-door, but please correct me if I am wrong.
To me, this is what differentiates wanting to be someone's friend or wanting to possibly be something more.
Note: This is in the initial stages. Personality, memories, and variables are not in play.
I believe in slow evolution.
This is like music. The song that sounds great the first time fades away. Think Def Leppard. But the songs which sound ungaugeable the first few times slowly enslave you. Think Pink Floyd
I would go on a date or two with someone I have no desire to be intimate with. But that spark better show up soon, because I would not continue to date someone who I had no interest in being intimate with. That would be a waste of everyone's time.
For me, sex is incidental. Doesn't matter to me whether it happens or not. I can meet my sexual needs without a partner. If I have a relationship with someone, it's about other things, not sex. Sex certainly may be a part of it, will likely be a part of it, but it's not my driving reason to have said relationship.
I could be intimate with someone without being particularly attracted to them in terms of appearance.
This is like music. The song that sounds great the first time fades away. Think Def Leppard. But the songs which sound ungaugeable the first few times slowly enslave you. Think Pink Floyd
Haha. That's just funny. No matter how many times I hear Pink Floyd, it's just not gonna happen. Whereas Def Leppard- heck yeah!
In fact, back in the 90's somebody gave me a cassette of Pink Floyd, and I was not one to waste a perfectly good cassette - so I recorded Def Leppard songs over it.
Now guys, I don't mean to offend ur delicacy, but since when does a man have to be attracted to a woman in order to do the wild thang? If she's willing u r attracted. Hence, the concepts such of "WAM BAM THANKYA MAM" or one night stand mentality? I know some of u may still say "I don't want to date someone I am not attracted to," but doesn't that mean u don't want to do something else? It may mean u don't want to pay for a date with money or time, but u will capitalize given the opportunity. I could be wrong, but I doubt it!
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No!
If she's willing u r attracted.
