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so that the man doesn't insist anymore or feel hurt/guilty/insecure about the woman not reaching orgasm. It's easier to fake than to start explaining why it cannot always be (and for some females it's rare or even impossible) and how it's not necessarily his fault.
It's thoroughly unadvisable to fake though. Much better to clarify beforehand.
While I've never faked, I have just outright lied and said I had had one. Some guys were just lousy in bed and were never going to get it right even if I drew a map. Others were too worried about themselves. Sometimes I just wanted to enjoy the sex without worrying about making it happen.
Varies with the person and yes, in the end honesty is the best policy - you avoid problems or more unenjoyable sex that way.
I think some do it in order to avoid hurting the man's ego/feelings. I never faked one though but did used to tell him he was excellent (ok so I exaggerated with the over praising). No need to be to blunt about it. I know other women would be straight forward about it and said ''You really need to improve'' but I ain't one of them so I would just be saying ''I enjoyed it'' or ''It was excellent''.
While I've never faked, I have just outright lied and said I had had one. Some guys were just lousy in bed and were never going to get it right even if I drew a map. Others were too worried about themselves. Sometimes I just wanted to enjoy the sex without worrying about making it happen.
Varies with the person and yes, in the end honesty is the best policy - you avoid problems or more unenjoyable sex that way.
This is great!
Basically...although I've never faked, I've lied! A huh hmmmmmmmm
Were the guy/s blind and deaf also? How do you pull this one off?
Basically...although I've never faked, I've lied! A huh hmmmmmmmm
Were the guy/s blind and deaf also? How do you pull this one off?
I am apparently an excellent liar. And/or he had no idea what a female orgasm should look like. Some combination of the two has resulted in a less than satisfied girl and some boys with way too much confidence in their abilities. I apologize for sending them out into the world with false knowledge.
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