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Old 02-20-2010, 06:55 PM
 
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Old 02-20-2010, 07:00 PM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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And another person who has never done anything wrong chimes in.
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I too thought that was horrible (and I'm hoping it was fake). I think the way you handle a break up says a lot about you. There's no need to humiliate someone like that, no matter what she "deserved." and even if you DO think she deserved it, you'd have to be a sadist to find that funny.
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Wow, this guy is cruel. I mean breaking it off is one thing. Public humiliation is downright mean. I think anybody who thinks this was funny should have his or her head examined.
I think I've just found another "test" to weed out guys who are all wrong for me. We've heard of the waiter test, and I also pay attention to how a guy talks about his exes. If he constantly bad mouths his ex and makes out like he was so perfect and his ex was just a b**** that's a red flag to me. Now I have another one to add. If I play this radio clip for a guy and he laughs and thinks it's just great, I'll be moving right along and dumping his a$$.
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Old 02-20-2010, 07:03 PM
 
Location: NYC
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I think I've just found another "test" to weed out guys who are all wrong for me. We've heard of the waiter test, and I also pay attention to how a guy talks about his exes. If he constantly bad mouths his ex and makes out like he was so perfect and his ex was just a b**** that's a red flag to me. Now I have another one to add. If I play this radio clip for a guy and he laughs and thinks it's just great, I'll be moving right along and dumping his a$$.
Hmmm.... you might be on to something here.
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Old 02-20-2010, 10:24 PM
 
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I think I've just found another "test" to weed out guys who are all wrong for me. We've heard of the waiter test, and I also pay attention to how a guy talks about his exes. If he constantly bad mouths his ex and makes out like he was so perfect and his ex was just a b**** that's a red flag to me. Now I have another one to add. If I play this radio clip for a guy and he laughs and thinks it's just great, I'll be moving right along and dumping his a$$.
Yep. What the guy on the radio doesn't realize (As well as a lot of the guys who find this audio clip great) is that he is the one who comes off looking like the total ********, and the girl actually comes off looking pretty sympathetic.

I think cheating is a terrible thing, but anybody capable of this kind of total viciousness is not someone anybody should be with in a relationship. A real man would have broken things off quietly and walked away. As it is, most of the adult world probably listens to this and things, "Man, she's better off without him."
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Old 02-20-2010, 10:33 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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She deserved it. Cold, but justified.

I have no sympathy for her. Crocodile tears.

She confirmed on the air she was cheating.
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Old 02-20-2010, 10:39 PM
 
Location: NH
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SHE deserved more than that. She deserves a STD.
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Old 02-20-2010, 10:42 PM
 
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She deserved it. Cold, but justified.

I have no sympathy for her. Crocodile tears.

She confirmed on the air she was cheating.
Sorry. Only a sadistic pig would do this. Yeah, she cheated. No excuses for her. But situations like this are why the phrase "Be the better person" came into the language.

Essentially what happened is the guy went from being the wronged party to behaving like a vicious, cruel and spiteful bastard.

Trust me on this. If you ever pulled a stunt like this in your life, you would really hate yourself for it down the road, no matter how much entertainment value it has for a bunch of strangers. Not only do you essentially tell the entire world that you were cheated on, but you also make strangers think, "...And I can understand why."
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Old 02-20-2010, 10:49 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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I sure he could have thought of a more compassionate, less painful (for her) way to dump her. Obviously, she caused him some pain, he's just sending the karma back.

I have no sympathy/empathy/compassion for cheaters.

She got as good as she gave.
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Old 02-20-2010, 11:05 PM
 
Location: Bayou City Megaplex
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To be quite honest, as a guy who's had to endure the immense pain of being cheated on, a part of me took a bit of morbid pleasure in hearing her become undone after the humiliating climax.
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Old 02-20-2010, 11:11 PM
 
Location: Chicagoland
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I've never been cheated on and I'm a female.

She got what was coming.
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