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Old 02-22-2010, 11:37 AM
 
Location: New Mexico
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Moved in/ Moved out. So relieved!

June 09 I started a thread this time last year about my boyfriend of 7 years(now 8) who always had a running list of exuses why it wasn't time to get married. Solve one, another would come up.
Most all the replies were based along, he's Never going to marry you and why buy the milk/cow thing, and it will continue to be a list of new excuses coming up.
Well, it's a year later and a few more excuses until now he's finally out of ammo. It's a sealed deal that it's never going to happen.

I moved in recently with him (June 09) based on only if marriage was on the table in the near future. It was agreed. Now I'm in, more issues of excuses like talk to the tax man, and blah blah. Until it got to a prenup, to a prenup would never be good enough, so it's not going to happen period.

I just wanted to let you guys know. You were totally right.

Feb 22- 2010- I guess it took all that to prove to me where I stood. I'm now moved back home and so happy for it. No more longing and pining over my guy. My son and I moved in with him over the summer. We were treated the whole time like, I want you here as long as I don't see you, any signs of you and don't hear you! But, baby, I want you here! It was Hell. Enough of that BS! I'm home now.
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Old 02-22-2010, 11:41 AM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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I'm sorry that things turned out this way and that you needed to go through all of that to see the situation for what it was. I'm glad that you are ready to move on and give you and your son a healthy life. Good Luck.
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Old 02-22-2010, 11:43 AM
 
Location: Tempe, AZ
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I'm glad you are happy and realized that it was not going to happen after less than a year of living with him. Lots of people take a much longer time to realize that what they want and reality are never going to converge
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Old 02-22-2010, 11:46 AM
 
Location: In my skin
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Sorry that happened to you, but lesson learned, si? I'm glad you are happier now.
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Old 02-22-2010, 01:13 PM
 
Location: Just south of Denver since 1989
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Next Adventure, please!
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Old 02-22-2010, 01:16 PM
 
Location: New Mexico
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Next Adventure, please!

Note takin'.
Spared all of you the ongoing details. Just gave the ending.
The adventure was the full circle. Thanks.
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Old 02-22-2010, 01:32 PM
 
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Good deal.

Some guy will come along and want to spend the rest of his life with you.

Until then...give yourself some time to heal.
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Old 02-22-2010, 03:16 PM
 
Location: Way up high
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I'm sorry it didn't work out for you but I'm glad you are happy and that's all that matters!
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Old 02-22-2010, 03:18 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I`m glad that things are looking brighter for you as well!
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Old 02-23-2010, 12:51 AM
 
Location: Las Vegas
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Even though you don't want to see it, you still look at the train wreck. Even though you know better.

I'm sorry this happened. I hope you can file this in the lessons I learned file and go on to bigger and better things.
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