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Old 02-21-2010, 02:04 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I know of someone who was having a cyber relationship.
She felt that it was an innocent act because they were not engaging in person. She did this quite often, and she seriously did not consider it cheating.
What do you think?
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Old 02-21-2010, 02:08 PM
 
Location: Hot Springs, AR
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If they are having cyber sex, they are cyber cheating, period.
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Old 02-21-2010, 02:18 PM
 
Location: Wherever women are
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What do they do with cyber sex?

Touch the keyboard, mouse, smooth edges of the monitor and do weird stuff on it.

I know a guy back in college who was rumored to love to ejaculate on his keyboard. Obviously, he got a new one every month or so
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Old 02-21-2010, 02:19 PM
 
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I know of someone who was having a cyber relationship.
She felt that it was an innocent act because they were not engaging in person. She did this quite often, and she seriously did not consider it cheating.
What do you think?
If she is married or have a boyfriend, that is cheating. She is acting on it, no one is making her write those words nor is it just in her head. Most people say it's alright to think about it once in a while, as long as you're not acting on it. Well she is thinking about it, she is acting on it and she is writing it aswell.
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Old 02-21-2010, 02:20 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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Depends upon a lot of things...is she married? Happily? Does her husband know? Is he OK with it? Is it really cybersex or just hot talk?

In the end, for the sake of her relationship, isn't it better doing it in cyberspace than in real life?
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Old 02-21-2010, 02:30 PM
 
Location: Space Coast
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I think it's between her and her husband/boyfriend. Does he know about it? Does he care? Does he think it's cheating? Did she and this other guy meet on one of those dating sites or in a 'singles' chat room? Is she just typing words, or are they exchanging pictures and more personal information (real names, addresses, etc.)?
The internet sure has complicated the rules.
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Old 02-21-2010, 02:34 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Yes. She is married, and at first, it was just "hot talk." It was kept a secret from her husband. She told me that she even went as far as to send a video of herself, to one guy.
We argued about it and I told her I felt that it was cheating, but she saw things diffrently, and just looked at it as an "innocent game."
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Old 02-21-2010, 02:40 PM
 
Location: in the good ol' South
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I think anything that she does, that she would not want her dh to find out about, or that he would be upset about if he found out about it, is cheating.
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Old 02-21-2010, 02:44 PM
 
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Yes. She is married, and at first, it was just "hot talk." It was kept a secret from her husband. She told me that she even went as far as to send a video of herself, to one guy.
We argued about it and I told her I felt that it was cheating, but she saw things diffrently, and just looked at it as an "innocent game."

It was kept a secret from her husband

It was just 'Hot talk'

she even went as far as to send a video of herself

Looked at it as an "Innocent game"

Seems like it went from just 'hot talk' to a video, and that it's just a innocent game yet she keeps it a secret from her husbend. Shouldn't this be sending enough bells ringing?
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Old 02-21-2010, 02:47 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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Seems like it went from just 'hot talk' to a video, and that it's just a innocent game yet she keeps it a secret from her husbend. Shouldn't this be sending enough bells ringing?
Well yeah...I think so, but before the video, she felt that it was ok.
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