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I'll confirm the concensus and say don't. It's really not worth it. There are other ways of meeting men. And they may be reading your reading them as a potential notch in the belt who can't complain b/c of your work position. You wouldn't jeopardize your job to complain, now would you? It is still a male centered world, and you would lose so much. Don't go there.
Ive been lusting over this guy at work since he started here last year, I work with all guys mostly and Im a divorced female (33) and there are a few guys here that are married but they talk to me all the time and I can see that they want more than talk...but wont say it. I mean come on people you can tell when someone wants you but cant say anything because of their current status and due to the fact that they dont want to risk a government job....what is one to do. (in my case) If they only give me more hint , I will go for it and wont say a word to anyone.
So, you want to be divorced AND unemployed?
If you are really that horny, there are plenty of men who will be willing to jump your bones outside of work environment.
Besides, isn't it a lot more fun to just be flirtatious? This way, you will still have respect in their eyes and will not be known as an office *****.
Ive been lusting over this guy at work since he started here last year, I work with all guys mostly and Im a divorced female (33) and there are a few guys here that are married but they talk to me all the time and I can see that they want more than talk...but wont say it. I mean come on people you can tell when someone wants you but cant say anything because of their current status and due to the fact that they dont want to risk a government job....what is one to do. (in my case) If they only give me more hint , I will go for it and wont say a word to anyone.
Sleeping with a married man is a bad plan
Sleeping with a married co-worker is an even worse plan
Actually the only worse plan than this that I can come up with is sleeping with a married co-worker who is married to a friend or relative.
Never get intimate with a coworker. NEVER. You do not know they will keep it a secret and once it's out, you'll be the butt of every office happy hour joke.
Never get intimate with a coworker. NEVER. You do not know they will keep it a secret and once it's out, you'll be the butt of every office happy hour joke.
And worse--so much worse. Chances are good that such a risk will lead to the loss of employment. Once people start to gossip and exchange opinions on moral issues they lose respect and all sorts of work related problems develop.
Message received yet, OP? Or are you sitting their drooling over your desk hoping for some enlightenment once you return home? Hope you eventually get it loud and clear - and kudos for not going online for personal business during your working day ... !
Don't f*ck guys at your job. You're a woman so it's easy for you to pick up. Go to the grocery store or gym or Target or Costco or the gas station to get your fill. You'll be better off.
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