Lights On or Off? (dating, women, romantic, personal)

[jacktravern]

Do you folks prefer the lights on or off while being intimate with someone? It took me a long time before I finally realized why women wanted to be in the dark. A lot apparently feel you will be turned off if you see them naked and sadly this has been true as Ive been dating more women in their 30's.
Personally I need the lights on to enjoy the show

[teatime]

Lights off, with candlelight.

[SifuPhil]

I prefer the mirror-ball spinning, the lasers going full-blast and the fog machine totally filled up.

...but that's just me...

[Currency Pair Crocodile]

Originally Posted by teatime

Lights off, with candlelight.

When I was way too young, I secretly saw this movie called body of evidence.

A naked madonna was pouring candle on the chest of some dude

[MMichelle]

I think many women worry about how they look. Men are usually more visual than women - men want to see. The best mix is dim or indirect lighting. If in the bedroom, the hall light might be left on with the door ajar.
For the ture romantics, I suggest flicker light bulbs. Flicker light bulbs can be purchased in the home improvement stores an will work in most common lamps. Use several. The bulbs "flicker" giving the impression of a candle. Better than candles, you both can fall asleep without worrying about burning candles.

[Yzette]

On. On, on, on, on, on.

[moonshadow]

Depends...usually on where I am in my cycle.

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by moonshadow

Depends...usually on where I am in my cycle.

Unicycle

Tricycle

Bicycle.

I just wanna know.

[Snort]

Lights On or Off?

Strobe lights, a disco ball and sirens.

[Jays1983]

Ask your mother, I don't bone and tell...