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Old 02-26-2010, 11:01 AM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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A basket, on a rope, descending into a hole in the floor, containing hand lotion.
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Old 02-26-2010, 11:05 AM
 
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Dirty dishes in the kitchen sink. But dirty laundry not so much, especially if the underwear is showing on the laundry basket, I might pick it up and smell it.
Dude your creepy.
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Old 02-26-2010, 11:06 AM
 
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First time I was at my exs place the dust covered stacks of magazines, newspapers and books and shoud have givin me a clue, then later seeing his grimy toe prints in the bathtub and the shades under the curtains that were stapled down should have made me run.

With my current bf, his place was very clean, and he had a ton of nick knacks, candles and pretty curtians, it was almost feminine. It wasnt until later in our relationship I realized he was just a lazy slob and he had been paying someone to clean his house.

I guess first impressions are always accurate.
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Old 02-26-2010, 11:07 AM
 
Location: Pittsburgh
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One guy's bathroom was dirty and gross, and he didn't have any toilet paper. Instead there was a stack of fast food napkins and a roll of paper towels. Ew. If I'd rather go to the gas station down the street, chances are I'm not coming back.
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Old 02-26-2010, 11:09 AM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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Finding out she was using paper towels in the bathroom because she'd run out of toilet paper.
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Old 02-26-2010, 11:09 AM
 
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creepy porn like "barely legal" etc
I found a stack of those in my exs underwear drawer. And he had the balls to call me a pervert because I rented BrokeBack Mountain.
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Old 02-26-2010, 11:10 AM
 
Location: North Carolina
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First time I was at my exs place the dust covered stacks of magazines, newspapers and books and shoud have givin me a clue, then later seeing his grimy toe prints in the bathtub and the shades under the curtains that were stapled down should have made me run.

With my current bf, his place was very clean, and he had a ton of nick knacks, candles and pretty curtians, it was almost feminine. It wasnt until later in our relationship I realized he was just a lazy slob and he had been paying someone to clean his house.

I guess first impressions are always accurate.
I have no problems with a man who pays someone to clean up the house, if you're not able/willing to do something yourself then you better have the bucks to have someone else to do it for you. And that goes for fixing the car and things around the house/yard too.
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Old 02-26-2010, 11:12 AM
 
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I have no problems with a man who pays someone to clean up the house
I dont either, or with them paying someone to clean my house. Initially, I didnt know. I thought he was a neat person. Man was I wrong.
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Old 02-26-2010, 11:23 AM
 
Location: Nashville, Tn
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One guy's bathroom was dirty and gross, and he didn't have any toilet paper.
I had just posted the same thing and then I saw you beat me to it.
Another turnoff would be to see that her pets had trashed the couch and other furniture by clawing or chewing on everything. I've seen that before. If someone has pets they need to train them and take care of them.
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Old 02-26-2010, 11:23 AM
 
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Let's say you're dating someone and you're going over to their place for the first time. What are some things that would be a turn off for you to see at the person's place?
A husband.
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