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Old 03-05-2010, 07:55 PM
 
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Yeah..yeah give it to him!!! lmao!
Are you interested in learning about relationships or having a pissing contest?
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Old 03-05-2010, 07:56 PM
 
Location: somewhere south of Canada
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I never said that either. :-)

You made the claim that you gave him all the sex and he still cheated, but do you know that cheating is NEVER about sex?
In his case, it was about his ego, but I really don't feel like getting into this discussion tonight.
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Old 03-05-2010, 07:59 PM
 
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In his case, it was about his ego, but I really don't feel like getting into this discussion tonight.
I am sorry, and I understand.
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Old 03-05-2010, 09:55 PM
 
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That if you have a very, very, VERY active sexual life in your relationship you will never cheat?
I don't think that is true Mr. Cat. Cheating is not about sex. It is about so much more...
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Old 03-05-2010, 09:58 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Are you interested in learning about relationships or having a pissing contest?
Hold on ....I think I might beat you at this pissing contest...I pee alot. You try to pass a watermelon from your doto.(from a smartarse)
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Old 03-07-2010, 10:55 AM
 
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That if you have a very, very, VERY active sexual life in your relationship you will never cheat?
No, it's not.

Cheating occurs for a number of reasons, not because the sex is good as it stands.
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Old 03-07-2010, 11:05 AM
 
Location: NH
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No. I'm especially familiar with mid-life issues and the cheating isn't about sex as much as it is about a general dissatisfaction with life and looking for something/someone to make things better. Many people have emotional affairs (ie: the soul mate excuse) that don't involve sex but are just as distructive to a relationship.
It's actually more often about the novelty of the idea, not necessarily dissatisfaction of anything. A happy marriage can still involve cheating.

Plus, a VERY promiscuous person (off topic a bit) isn't necessarily unhappy at least outwardly, though usually on the inside. Often they are simply unable to view others as people but rather objects that are available for their gratification and attention. Once the novelty wears off, they are fleetingly onto the next item.

The same can be said of cheating in more "convential" relationships but usually on a less chaotic scale.
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