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Unread 03-07-2010, 07:04 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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Originally Posted by Rakin View Post
If you see her again be sure and get a copy of her drivers license. She may be 18 going on 16.
Haha....very true. One of my guy friends at the time was 25 and dating this chick whom said she was 21. Until we went out together and she got carded. Well she was almost 18 in a month.
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Unread 03-07-2010, 07:10 PM
 
Location: Pennsylvania
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OK, I need to be blunt here. Sorry.
You are too old for her, and if you cannot connect with women of your own age, then you are probably defective in some way that younger women do not have the experience to recognize.
It just sounds wrong with 18 and 32. 32 and 46 doesn't sound bad. It's just iffy in those teen yrs.
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Unread 03-07-2010, 07:23 PM
 
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I've seen older men who can and do take the plunge early and get themselves a teen as a girlfriend or wife. Everything works great, until the teen grows into her late 20's and starts wondering what else is out there, what did she miss? She either has an affair and realizes she doesn't want to be with the guy she dedicated her early years to, or she has a series of affairs. This ends up badly for the man. That is probably why many people wouldn't date an 18 year old for a LTR.
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Unread 03-07-2010, 07:27 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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I've seen older men who can and do take the plunge early and get themselves a teen as a girlfriend or wife. Everything works great, until the teen grows into her late 20's and starts wondering what else is out there, what did she miss? She either has an affair and realizes she doesn't want to be with the guy she dedicated her early years to, or she has a series of affairs. This ends up badly for the man. That is probably why many people wouldn't date an 18 year old for a LTR.
That's why when it comes woman in the 19-23 age bracket, you just play with them not DATE them.
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Unread 03-07-2010, 07:30 PM
 
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That's why when it comes woman in the 19-23 age bracket, you just play with them not DATE them.
Playing with women is playing with fire.
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Unread 03-07-2010, 07:37 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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Playing with women is playing with fire.
Not PLAY them, having ongoing Adult fun without a commitment.
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Unread 03-07-2010, 07:41 PM
 
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Not PLAY them, having ongoing Adult fun without a commitment.

Sounds good to me. But...sometimes many men get caught in the fun, and that makes them vulnerable. But I see what you're saying. As long as both are on the same page, then have at it!
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Unread 03-07-2010, 08:30 PM
 
Location: North America
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This thread went so wrong

By way of a little update, I saw her again this time in a larger social setting with some of her friends around. She behaved exactly the same way. As soon as she saw me she came right over with a big smile, and then she did a little happy dance

It's official. She's my new little buddy
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Unread 03-07-2010, 08:31 PM
 
Location: Wu Dang Mountain
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This thread went so wrong

By way of a little update, I saw her again this time in a larger social setting with some of her friends around. She behaved exactly the same way. As soon as she saw me she came right over with a big smile, and then she did a little happy dance

It's official. She's my new little buddy
You rock, dude! Enjoy!
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Unread 03-07-2010, 08:32 PM
 
Location: Philadelphia, PA
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This thread went so wrong

By way of a little update, I saw her again this time in a larger social setting with some of her friends around. She behaved exactly the same way. As soon as she saw me she came right over with a big smile, and then she did a little happy dance

It's official. She's my new little buddy
LOL, new little buddy huh?-lol
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