Interesting info found out today... (how to, married, men, kid)

[himain]

Ok so most of you know that the ex and I split in August and in Sept I met the 23 year old. The next day after I met the baby, the ex called me and was like "oh I heard you were making out with some kid last night in a club". I was like wtf?? Anyways, when the baby and I started seeing each other, the ex called me and was like "oh your boy sucks in soccer btw" and I again was like wtf?? I didn't even know he played soccer so I asked him and he confirmed this. I was like how the hell is R finding all this stuff out??? So the baby and I stopped seeing each other in Nov and I got involved with marathon man who is my fwb. My ex called me and was like "I know you are seeing a friend of yours". I'm like ok WTF????

So today I ended up speaking with my friend who I told to pound sound right after I moved back down to Miami and she told me that the ex had someone watching me when I moved back down to Miami!!! Isn't that a little odd?? I mean the relationship ended on a decent note (except since I moved back down to Mia he's been acting like a dyldo to me) so why would he have me followed?? I didn't care what he did when I left. Now my question is: Is he still having it done?? I asked him and of course he denied everything but there's no way he could have known that info about the baby..

[MontanaGuy]

That is pretty odd and it sounds like somebody's been checking up on all of your activities. That would seem pretty creepy to me. Do you think it's just some friend of his who's following you around or would he have gone so far as to hire someone to do it? In either case it sounds like he's probably a bit obsessed which isn't a good thing.

[professorsenator]

Originally Posted by himain

so why would he have me followed??

Uhhh...becasue he's a manipulative jerk who likes to play mind games?

[dgfurman]

That is very scary. You may want to bring this up to local law enforcement, and let them know that you feel that you are being stalked. And if you think you are, you may want to hire a private eye to figure this out for you.

[2RUGGED4YOU]

Originally Posted by himain

Ok so most of you know that the ex and I split in August and in Sept I met the 23 year old. The next day after I met the baby, the ex called me and was like "oh I heard you were making out with some kid last night in a club". I was like wtf?? Anyways, when the baby and I started seeing each other, the ex called me and was like "oh your boy sucks in soccer btw" and I again was like wtf?? I didn't even know he played soccer so I asked him and he confirmed this. I was like how the hell is R finding all this stuff out??? So the baby and I stopped seeing each other in Nov and I got involved with marathon man who is my fwb. My ex called me and was like "I know you are seeing a friend of yours". I'm like ok WTF????

So today I ended up speaking with my friend who I told to pound sound right after I moved back down to Miami and she told me that the ex had someone watching me when I moved back down to Miami!!! Isn't that a little odd?? I mean the relationship ended on a decent note (except since I moved back down to Mia he's been acting like a dyldo to me) so why would he have me followed?? I didn't care what he did when I left. Now my question is: Is he still having it done?? I asked him and of course he denied everything but there's no way he could have known that info about the baby..

Geez, we sure know how to pic them, right dear?LOL....... Be gone and I hope they get constipated for a week!LMAO..........

[yankeegirl313]

drama!!!!

[himain]

LOL I'm thinking he hired someone to follow me. I mean there's no way some casual friend of ours could have known that. Also, he hadn't lived in Miami in several years so I'm ruling a casual friend out..

Do I feel I'm being stalked? Not at all but its very odd and I don't get why you would want to hear that information??

[PassTheChocolate]

Hun, if you guys are broken up and he is having you followed, that is stalking. Not only was he stalking you, he was stalking the baby. I don't know that many people have the time or the desire to follow somebody around all the time just as a favor to a friend, so I think it's a safe bet that he hired someone. If he paid with a credit card, that could be revealed, if you filed charges and the authorities decide it's worth pursuing.

I say you stop all contact with him. For one thing, this is not acceptable. But I'll bet he steps it up. Whatever you do, don't get comfortable with this.

[Mac_Muz]

Just curious but how old are you to call the 23 year old the baby? Just sounds goophy to me is all.

You are being stalked! I would see to it that ends. Your x isn't all done with you for what ever reasons. Get that stopped.

Oh to be fair I am 58 male married, and live in Tamworth NH. Just ammusing myself reading here.

[giz2000]

He needs to get a life is what he needs to do. Some men just don't get it...please be careful.