Husband likes women with big boobs but isn't supportive of me getting a boob job

[city_data91]

Originally Posted by xsthomas

I am from the other end of the spectrum. I am not a big boob guy. Yes I have had women with them and are ok with it. I dont understand why some women ruin their bodies with them. Im talking about the women that have nice size boobs and get implants that are waaaay too big, and they think they look great. Not. Granted some women do get them, some that are really small or just flat,for their self image or for more self esteem, but to a limit. Me, I prefer a woman with small to very small ones. A woman like that, that is content with how she looks, theres nothing better. Big ones just get in the way.

I like small boobs and big boobs. I don't care much about size.

[Lost&Found]

The number of comments contributed in response to the original post suggest female breasts are a crowd-pleaser.

[Ulysses61]

I think any man looking at other women in a noticeable way when they're with their partner is very classless. Of course we all look at attractive people but you DO NOT make it obvious. If they want to look, do it when their wife or GF isn't around or be very subtle.

[bizmomwife]

I wouldn't be so hard on Deja Vu. I used to have the same problem with my husband telling me he didn't like certain things but would be obviously attracted to them on another woman (such as fake nails, extensions, a petite frame, revealing clothing, etc.) I'm not like that all. I'm mid-large size, curvy, and very conservative in how I dress. I started to feel - to be blunt - he preferred sluts over class, and it bothered me so badly I broke down in tears one day. He eventually explained to me that he liked those things in the past, and found it hard to shake, but that's something he wants, not something he needs. He knows what he wants (or used to) that wasn't good for him (lust can be that way sometimes), but he also knows what he needs (which is me), and he truly sees me as better than all of them which is why he married me. He didn't want me stooping down to that level. It could be the same way for your husband... some animalistic part of him is attracted to women that look like they just came from the set of a porn, but he knows it is not good and at the end of the day, it's not what he truly wants or needs at all. If that is the case, you have to be big enough to handle that truth and have enough trust in your husband as well. Just a thought...

[Chowhound]

I like a big rack, I won't lie.

But a boob job is surgery..... that would concern me.

Besides, I'd rather see natural smaller breasts then big hard bolt on types.

Boobs are supposed to hang a bit....... I think that seems to have been forgotten.

[Mikala43]

Originally Posted by Chowhound

I like a big rack, I won't lie.

But a boob job is surgery..... that would concern me.

Besides, I'd rather see natural smaller breasts then big hard bolt on types.

Boobs are supposed to hang a bit....... I think that seems to have been forgotten.

I think ALL guys, in general, like big boobs. We like big... you knows.

But the person, in general, supercedes those things. Guys can appretiate a nice, big pair, but still be totally happy with the package that is their GF. Small ones and all.

This reminds me off a woman I worked with who had a boob job, and wore clevage enhancing clothes. I was fascinated by them..... they were as you say "bolted on", they were the most aggressive boobs I have ever seen...

[Chowhound]

Originally Posted by Mikala43

I think ALL guys, in general, like big boobs. We like big... you knows.

But the person, in general, supercedes those things. Guys can appretiate a nice, big pair, but still be totally happy with the package that is their GF. Small ones and all.

This reminds me off a woman I worked with who had a boob job, and wore clevage enhancing clothes. I was fascinated by them..... they were as you say "bolted on", they were the most aggressive boobs I have ever seen...

I've never heard boob jobs as being "aggressive" I think I might have to use that at the next cocktail party I host....

Yes, it is the woman.... not just the parts.....

[Prince_Frog]

I can safely says that I loves the big boobs.

But I would not ever want my SO to get a boob job. I chose to be with her because of who she is, not just her boobs.

Besides, my hands can grip big and small boobs. It's not that important for surgery.